Im writting this post because i cant get ahead on skypoker and i need someone to say something to me to put it in perspective or something!
I wouldnt say im a good player because i dont have the funds to prove it, but i wouldnt say im bad either. Iv watched the videos, read the blogs and know not to tilt and that luck goes round in circles. But why cant my hands hold up when a player makes a bad decision in a situation where i would typically want them to call????? Now before you think that im just going to rattle off some bad beats, im just using them as a way of putting this all in perspective.
Its getting to the point where i can almost predict whats going to happen. Take my last tournament exit, I had QJ of hearts in middlle position, blinds were 150 and 300 everyone had about 3500, I raise to 900, after playing very tight so my table image was reliable. I get called by the small and big blind...just called. the flop comes j44, rainbow. both check, and id already decided to play the hand aggressively so i went all in (my stack was relatively low - 2700 as it was early and i knew these two players liked to see flops with medium hands.) The small blind called me with a10o, big blind folded. so im thinking this is ok this is good he has maybe 15% chance of winning (why he made the call!? maybe he put me on a small pocket pair and he had overs, either way i should feel relatively safe.) turn k, river q!
They say dont tilt, but the last 2 times iv seen someone else tilt and go all in with whatever they had the next hand, i just so happened to have kks and aces the next one. Anyone would think excellent, im going to punish them for tilting, yet when i had aces they flopped a straight from utg with 56o. the next time they rivered a straight from allin, mid position with j10o and i had kings.
These supposidly super rare occassions are part of my every day poker life on skypoker, and its got to the point where i feel behind even when i have aces. i know the odds are rarely even more then 60% but its beginning to be a joke, AND I CANT HELP BUT FEEL THE BIG STACKS GET MORE LUCK!! so much so, that when i was a big stack and was up against someone with a third of my stack and i knew he had a very good hand after folding almost everyhand before i still put him allin when he raised 4bbs preflop and i had qjo, because i KNEW id win. He had aksuited and i hit a full house.
My point here is that i feel like im playing the luck game and whether i feel like im going to win preflop regardless of the cards, and im not playing poker!
I understand how long winded that might all be, and to some extend quite confusing as to my point, but id still be happy to hear what anyone else thinks about all this and whether they have any words of wisdom to share.
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The beautiful thing about poker is as long as you consistently do the right thing, over time you will be profitable, it's a 100% cast iron truth!
I know it can feel like the site has it in for you and that it MUST be rigged against YOU, but it's simply not true. Just read that sentence and think about it logically, what possible benefit is there to Sky poker in this?
The one really important thing to remember about poker and particular multi table tournament poker is that it is ridiculously difficult to win. Even playing absolutely perfect textbook poker, you can still go months and months without a significant cash (believe me I've been there), you just need to stay focussed and keep doing the right things. When any doubts creep into our minds it can have really subtle but incredibly significant effects on our game, we expect the worst so we play too cautiously, we get annoyed so tilt too easily etc.......
Just ride it out and concentrate on your own game and be happy that you are doing the right things, that's all that you can controll!
Hey Julius
Welcome to the forum.
One of the best things you can do is post hands in the poker clinic section of the forum.
Doing this will allow you to get excellent feedback from a wide range of players. Sometimes we think we play a hand well, but could still be making mistakes.
Let me put the kettle on, get back to you later.
However I will say this; bad players being rewarded is a key ingredient of poker. Accept it and embrace it.
Why?
If bad players were never rewarded they'd soon stop playing. Then only the good players would be left and we'd have a level playing field. Nobody would be able to win much in that scenario, so all the good players would start to leave too. Poker would die.
We cannot stop making opponents making bad calls.
Now, lets think about that sentence, we DO NOT want to stop them making these calls. We want our opponents to make mistakes. If our opponent gets lucky then that's part of the game, we just need to put in enough volume for the variance to even out.
Spend more time working on your game and working on how to get a big stack so that you can lose a flip or two and still be in the tournament and less on how your opponents are playing bad/getting lucky. There are a number of flaws in your logic regarding your exit hand. Posts hands in the clinic and people can help you.
AND I CANT HELP BUT FEEL THE BIG STACKS GET MORE LUCK!! so much so, that when i was a big stack and was up against someone with a third of my stack and i knew he had a very good hand after folding almost everyhand before i still put him allin when he raised 4bbs preflop and i had qjo, because i KNEW id win. He had aksuited and i hit a full house.
You've said it all there. That's why they are the big stacks. Simon's right even the best need luck to go their way. All you can do is hope to have the best hand preflop especially if your allin. The rest is down to luck not skill.
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when i was just starting i was exactly the same and after 3 years of reading books watching videos and trolling through poker forums online im only about break even which isnt great but once again not that bothered as i love the game eventually it does turn round best of luck in the future