tbh if i dont wanna be branded a gambling addict by my own mother then i gotta quit completely cause she says i am addicted and cant quit, besides I cant play today cause I am too stressed out with stupid covering letters for placements cause a website tells me to do one thing, which is a website dedicated to graduates and graduate placements and is like the best website for everything and my mum says they are totally wrong and that I should do it another way which is messing with my head and frankly just making me more stressed about this covering letter than i already am, cause this is the sort of stuff I am not good at the personal sell yourself kinda stuff, academic and knowledge and working, great, personal not so good lol. Thats not saying I don't have self confidence more that i don't know how to sell myself without it sounding like I am being big headed lol Posted by Spike2120
Make a deal with your Mum Spike. Give Poker a swerve for a week and show her that you can do it....as long as in return she lets you post on the forums as a "reward". If your Mum does get a bit "Hetty Wainthrop Investigates" with you, it is easy to check your account history to see you have not been playing.
Your Studies are of paramount Importance, but because you are a bit stressed out mate, you SHOULD be allowed to unwind with something you enjoy. It Is YOU and not your Mum that will suffer long term.
I am stressed myself today, waiting in all day for a washing machine that should have been delivered before midday. Half-Three, no sign as yet, but I have had a hoot on the threads all day and can`t believe the time. May need to lose the rag shortly though.
Try not to worry about your personal stuff Spike. Life is too short and there are way too many threads to read. You are obviously intelligent and you do not come across as big-headed either.
On the other hand that Humpty-Dumpty.....
No wonder all the Kings Horses and all the Kings Men had a chew-on
I am sorry to tell everyone who has got to know me and have helped me improve my game that I am leaving poker. I have total support from some and just moans off others its just the moans are off my mum cause I am having a bad week, which I know is just part of poker, I felt I weren't playing wrong or badly but, from someone who doesnt know how to play is telling me its only my fault i am losing so frankly i dont have much choice but to leave. I have enjoyed every moment playing poker and playing on sky and I am going to miss the experience the fun and the people I just wish everyone the best for the future. Spike2120 Posted by Spike2120
like you said ealier spike, they don't moan when you're winning---thing is, it's a h ell of a lot harder to win when we are worried about losing--- so, as suggested earlier, use solid bankroll management techniques to build a roll that you can play with without worrying
Me Julee was worried about me playing at first, most people do think it's just gambling, but now she gets champagne and shoe's out of it every now then, she thinks it's a floppin marvellous idea!!---She even tells her Mum all about it. Poker is fast becoming an acceptable way of gaining a second income, but you have to be a consistent winner---sound bankroll management is the key here.
I would recommend playing the 2.20 deep stacks to build a roll, you get 2 or 3 hours of enjoyment for 2 quid, and a good solid game of poker will win in these, once you have a roll, try the 5.50 at 8.15--great game, and usually 100 quids for the winner---you can learn a solid game in these deepies, and once you have bought your Mum that pair of shoe's she was looking at, you'll get no more grief mate--you see!--gl mate--floppa whoppa
SOUNDS LIKE YOUR REAL PROBLEM IS EFECTING YOUR MIND PROBABLY SORTING THAT BEFORE RETURNING TO POKER WOULD BE THE BEST IDEA. LIFE IS ABOUT OPINIONS, USE AS MANY AS YOU CAN BEFORE MAKING YOUR FINAL DECISION ABOUT YOU CHOICE, THE BEING ADDICTED BIT IMO ISNT CORRECT IF YOUR TAKING TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT AND NOT LOOSING MONEY. AS A PARENT AND STEPPARENT MYSELF WE CAN USE THE TERM ADDICTED ABOUT MOST THINGS TV,SLEEPING,ALCOHOL,MOBILE PHONE OR FACEBOOK. YOUR MUM SAYING POKER HAS JUST GOT YOU ON EDGE BECAUSE BEING A GAMBELING ADDICT AS SHE SEES IT MAY BE A SCARY THING TO HER. IMO SHES MORE WORRIED ABOUT THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOUR SPENDING PLAYING AS OTHERS HAVE SAID IN THIS POST EVERYONE NEEDS AN ESCAPE YOURS IS POKER.
With one notable exception, what a terrific Thread, with everyone dispensing what they consider to be good advice, & really trying to steer Spike in the right direction.
Spike - you've latched onto a good bunch of guys here. We've got our share of trolls & aggro-merchants, but there is a strength in depth of decent, well-meaning people, too.
see if you can come to some sort of comprimise with your mum spike best of luck to you matey.ignore the 2childish posts on here,dont need to mention names do we.by the way im 48 3 kids and i still listen to my mum lol n she aint put me wrong all the best mate
I know Tikay and one thing is that its put my faith in this community if nothing else and everyone but one exception will be please to know after me my gf and my mum talked it through I aint going anywhere mum was having a half joke with me, but as always it sounded deadly serious she just wants me to be careful thats all.
As for the immediate future on sky poker I am taking a half break only gonna be playing low buy in tournaments to get through this rough period and going for the velocity later tonight hoping to satellite in. if not well possible a low stake bounty tournament and perhaps some DYM so if anyone wants a game in the low levels lol, ok that rules some of ya out lol, well I will be there and will be enjoying my poker once again.
Main thing is I will be taking it easy not spending too much to build my game back up, as for the offer steve I will hold you to that mate. Plan is to be more active on the forums as well once my coursework is all out the way (tuesday) lol, as I know where most of my holes are and most just need a tune up but if there is something that is really going wrong I will sure to contact you mate.
Also those who know about my MYP I did couple of weeks back, well plan is to have them running weekly at least from next week, give us all some plays to consider on days other than master cash.
good luck on the tables all, unless your playing me of course lol and thank you to everyone for there support and advice its all been noted and I will be taking it easy get through the bad spell.
Oh and as a Team Tikay member its saddens me to say I wont be in this weeks TKO event as unfortunately I have a bowls match I cant get out of lol.
Oh one more thing I have missed saying most of the day and thats to MereNovice, that episode of QI was great and you got the quote word for word lol, just a thought have I watched this weeks yet??????? erm puzzling oh well if not will surely watch it soon lol ok enough of that time for dinner
I know Tikay and one thing is that its put my faith in this community if nothing else and everyone but one exception will be please to know after me my gf and my mum talked it through I aint going anywhere mum was having a half joke with me, but as always it sounded deadly serious she just wants me to be careful thats all. As for the immediate future on sky poker I am taking a half break only gonna be playing low buy in tournaments to get through this rough period and going for the velocity later tonight hoping to satellite in. if not well possible a low stake bounty tournament and perhaps some DYM so if anyone wants a game in the low levels lol, ok that rules some of ya out lol, well I will be there and will be enjoying my poker once again. Main thing is I will be taking it easy not spending too much to build my game back up, as for the offer steve I will hold you to that mate. Plan is to be more active on the forums as well once my coursework is all out the way (tuesday) lol, as I know where most of my holes are and most just need a tune up but if there is something that is really going wrong I will sure to contact you mate. Also those who know about my MYP I did couple of weeks back, well plan is to have them running weekly at least from next week, give us all some plays to consider on days other than master cash. good luck on the tables all, unless your playing me of course lol and thank you to everyone for there support and advice its all been noted and I will be taking it easy get through the bad spell. Oh and as a Team Tikay member its saddens me to say I wont be in this weeks TKO event as unfortunately I have a bowls match I cant get out of lol. Spike2120 Posted by Spike2120
Top stuff. Mum's are sometimes - not often - wrong, but they mean well.
As to the Community here, & the "one exception", ignore it, be the bigger man.
Now go buy your Mum a little bunch of flowers, & give your g/f something, too.
yo spike my m8s mum seems to be similiar to yours... he wins at poker but she disapproves because she thinks its just luck and he will end up losing it all. People that dont play poker dont understand how much skill it is and that it is not just gambling... maybe try explaining it to her? For example why do the same players always win etc... good luck with it dude.
Alright guys calm down lol and will see some of you probably in the 1000 gtd velocity just came third in the satellite tournament went out with AK suited lol just typical but oh well thats poker lol.
IGet back in and just play Richard Orford heads up you will soon be back!!!n Response to Leaving Poker:
I am sorry to tell everyone who has got to know me and have helped me improve my game that I am leaving poker. I have total support from some and just moans off others its just the moans are off my mum cause I am having a bad week, which I know is just part of poker, I felt I weren't playing wrong or badly but, from someone who doesnt know how to play is telling me its only my fault i am losing so frankly i dont have much choice but to leave. I have enjoyed every moment playing poker and playing on sky and I am going to miss the experience the fun and the people I just wish everyone the best for the future. Spike2120 Posted by Spike2120
lol if anyone has a problem with a post i make then just tell me, rather than using terms like 'one exception'.
but yeah srs advice about the poker spike...don't play satellites, don't play MTTs. if you wanna build a roll, which is crucial to poker as once you hvae a roll then losing a BI doesn't matter, then stick to Double your Money SnGs or cash games.
lol if anyone has a problem with a post i make then just tell me, rather than using terms like 'one exception'. but yeah srs advice about the poker spike...don't play satellites, don't play MTTs. if you wanna build a roll, which is crucial to poker as once you hvae a roll then losing a BI doesn't matter, then stick to Double your Money SnGs or cash games. Posted by scotty77
yeah it wasnt yours scotty I aint mentioning names and this is an exception MTT other than perhaps a bounty hunter and my bankroll isnt that low tbf its just taken a little knock due to 'speculative' calls which normally u want but it seems every one of them lately against me hit on the river lol but nevermind it will play out in the end just gotta play this spell out, away from cash as its what costs the most when your on a bad run lol.
As for this MTT its just my little release from cash for a night and a cheap little game as it was only a pound lol just so I can have a relaxation tonight before thinking about raising my bankroll a bit more perhaps tomorrow perhaps not even til sunday or monday.
Oh as for your post again it made me laugh lol it was a lighter touch on a what can was a more darker discussion lol
lol if anyone has a problem with a post i make then just tell me, rather than using terms like 'one exception'. but yeah srs advice about the poker spike...don't play satellites, don't play MTTs. if you wanna build a roll, which is crucial to poker as once you hvae a roll then losing a BI doesn't matter, then stick to Double your Money SnGs or cash games. Posted by scotty77
In your case Ryan, don't worry, I will, you know that!
lol if anyone has a problem with a post i make then just tell me, rather than using terms like 'one exception'. but yeah srs advice about the poker spike...don't play satellites, don't play MTTs. if you wanna build a roll, which is crucial to poker as once you hvae a roll then losing a BI doesn't matter, then stick to Double your Money SnGs or cash games. Posted by scotty77
I love your posts 'scotty' .. however I havent a clue what this thread is all about ... and after 3 large malt whisky's I dont care either !! ) Top Man scotty luvvvvvv ya man
Don't worry benny it turned into a nothing post in the end lol as it was me leaving but ended up staying lol so no worries lol one of them things where heat of moment said to do one thing then after discussion and deliberation and clear thinking another option approached itself lol.
And after that much whiskey I doubt many of us would care lol although I am a proven lightweight these days, practically stopped drinking like 8/9 months ago and now I can't handle it at all, never been a real drinker anyways lol.
dude whats your problem? i posted 'lol who listens to their mum' as a joke and i get insulted by some random guy ive never played and then you start... ?!
In Response to Re: Leaving Poker : dude whats your problem? i posted 'lol who listens to their mum' as a joke and i get insulted by some random guy ive never played and then you start... ?! Posted by BlackFish3
Thats hardly starting "dude" I highlighted your post that i thought was harsh on your part imo Is there anyone in the forum that you don't want to have an argument with? (apart from Deadluck)
Don't worry benny it turned into a nothing post in the end lol as it was me leaving but ended up staying lol so no worries lol one of them things where heat of moment said to do one thing then after discussion and deliberation and clear thinking another option approached itself lol. And after that much whiskey I doubt many of us would care lol although I am a proven lightweight these days, practically stopped drinking like 8/9 months ago and now I can't handle it at all, never been a real drinker anyways lol. Posted by Spike2120
Top Man spike .... well all have our down moments at this game .. when I get bad - beats or walk into AA .. I just say nh wp gg glk al and pour another drink .. it numbs the pain .. then there's no need to abuse anyone .. you can just go peacefully off to bed knowing in my dreams the wsop will be there with all the TV and microphone stuck in my face and some lady in suspenders will be beckoning me .....then I'll wake up and go .. uggghhhhhhhh ) glk m8
your another 1 then that just gets involved... this is like a never ending cycle... i post... i get insulted... i retaliate... people like you get involved for no reason. Ive found its the good players that support me and i end up arguing with the rest... hmm! so whats your problem with me eh? come on just tell me straight. you not see what that muppet charly sumin wrote on the 1st page of this thread??
your another 1 then that just gets involved... this is like a never ending cycle... i post... i get insulted... i retaliate... people like you get involved for no reason. Ive found its the good players that support me and i end up arguing with the rest... hmm! so whats your problem with me eh? come on just tell me straight. you not see what that muppet charly sumin wrote on the 1st page of this thread?? Posted by BlackFish3
lol
This is a very good point and as a result i shall support you fully in the future and one day hope to be a good player
Actually with my one exception it was not pointing at you blackfish, like I said I still aint naming names lol but it is obvious just read through and I will give you all a clue, which perhaps aint too nice but its still not name calling
its in big writing and only about 6 words long ends with ........ if i remember rightly lol but didn't take much notice lol as for yours though blackfish I don't know why everyone is pointing yours out it was just a saying not so much an insulting post and as it turned out was only sarcasm, which I must say I didn't notice first time round but I didn't see it as insulting or the 'one exception' at all.
anyways been nice to catch up on the forums today might still be on for a little bit yet anyone wants to chat well I will keep checking this or just pm me lol
spike you seem like a really nice guy... sorry to get involved in an argument on your thread... just dont understand why someone randomly insults me lol. I think you should try and explain to your mum how much skill is involved but also just play tiny stakes and say to her if you are losing its just paying for entertainment. all the best buddy x
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Your Studies are of paramount Importance, but because you are a bit stressed out mate, you SHOULD be allowed to unwind with something you enjoy. It Is YOU and not your Mum that will suffer long term.
I am stressed myself today, waiting in all day for a washing machine that should have been delivered before midday. Half-Three, no sign as yet, but I have had a hoot on the threads all day and can`t believe the time. May need to lose the rag shortly though.
Try not to worry about your personal stuff Spike. Life is too short and there are way too many threads to read. You are obviously intelligent and you do not come across as big-headed either.
On the other hand that Humpty-Dumpty.....
No wonder all the Kings Horses and all the Kings Men had a chew-on
Me Julee was worried about me playing at first, most people do think it's just gambling, but now she gets champagne and shoe's out of it every now then, she thinks it's a floppin marvellous idea!!---She even tells her Mum all about it. Poker is fast becoming an acceptable way of gaining a second income, but you have to be a consistent winner---sound bankroll management is the key here.
I would recommend playing the 2.20 deep stacks to build a roll, you get 2 or 3 hours of enjoyment for 2 quid, and a good solid game of poker will win in these, once you have a roll, try the 5.50 at 8.15--great game, and usually 100 quids for the winner---you can learn a solid game in these deepies, and once you have bought your Mum that pair of shoe's she was looking at, you'll get no more grief mate--you see!--gl mate--floppa whoppa
LIFE IS ABOUT OPINIONS, USE AS MANY AS YOU CAN BEFORE MAKING YOUR FINAL DECISION ABOUT YOU CHOICE,
THE BEING ADDICTED BIT IMO ISNT CORRECT IF YOUR TAKING TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT AND NOT LOOSING MONEY.
AS A PARENT AND STEPPARENT MYSELF WE CAN USE THE TERM ADDICTED ABOUT MOST THINGS TV,SLEEPING,ALCOHOL,MOBILE PHONE OR FACEBOOK.
YOUR MUM SAYING POKER HAS JUST GOT YOU ON EDGE BECAUSE BEING A GAMBELING ADDICT AS SHE SEES IT MAY BE A SCARY THING TO HER. IMO SHES MORE WORRIED ABOUT THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOUR SPENDING PLAYING
AS OTHERS HAVE SAID IN THIS POST EVERYONE NEEDS AN ESCAPE YOURS IS POKER.
With one notable exception, what a terrific Thread, with everyone dispensing what they consider to be good advice, & really trying to steer Spike in the right direction.
Spike - you've latched onto a good bunch of guys here. We've got our share of trolls & aggro-merchants, but there is a strength in depth of decent, well-meaning people, too.
Stay close, YBA.
As for the immediate future on sky poker I am taking a half break only gonna be playing low buy in tournaments to get through this rough period and going for the velocity later tonight hoping to satellite in. if not well possible a low stake bounty tournament and perhaps some DYM so if anyone wants a game in the low levels lol, ok that rules some of ya out lol, well I will be there and will be enjoying my poker once again.
Main thing is I will be taking it easy not spending too much to build my game back up, as for the offer steve I will hold you to that mate. Plan is to be more active on the forums as well once my coursework is all out the way (tuesday) lol, as I know where most of my holes are and most just need a tune up but if there is something that is really going wrong I will sure to contact you mate.
Also those who know about my MYP I did couple of weeks back, well plan is to have them running weekly at least from next week, give us all some plays to consider on days other than master cash.
good luck on the tables all, unless your playing me of course lol and thank you to everyone for there support and advice its all been noted and I will be taking it easy get through the bad spell.
Oh and as a Team Tikay member its saddens me to say I wont be in this weeks TKO event as unfortunately I have a bowls match I cant get out of lol.
Spike2120
See you all later.
somehow feeling more positive now
Thanks again all
It is a bit nervewracking though when a Mother calls you and Raises All-In. :@)
To check-raise your Mum, an earlier plan could see if she gets the funny side of....
GOING
COULD EQUAL
As to the Community here, & the "one exception", ignore it, be the bigger man.
Now go buy your Mum a little bunch of flowers, & give your g/f something, too.
That should ensure you have a great weekend.
Might see some of you later
As for this MTT its just my little release from cash for a night and a cheap little game as it was only a pound lol just so I can have a relaxation tonight before thinking about raising my bankroll a bit more perhaps tomorrow perhaps not even til sunday or monday.
Oh as for your post again it made me laugh lol it was a lighter touch on a what can was a more darker discussion lol
To clarify - it was not yours.
I love your posts 'scotty' .. however I havent a clue what this thread is all about ... and after 3 large malt whisky's I dont care either !! ) Top Man scotty luvvvvvv ya man
And after that much whiskey I doubt many of us would care lol although I am a proven lightweight these days, practically stopped drinking like 8/9 months ago and now I can't handle it at all, never been a real drinker anyways lol.
I highlighted your post that i thought was harsh on your part imo
Is there anyone in the forum that you don't want to have an argument with? (apart from Deadluck)
Top Man spike .... well all have our down moments at this game .. when I get bad - beats or walk into AA .. I just say nh wp gg glk al and pour another drink .. it numbs the pain .. then there's no need to abuse anyone .. you can just go peacefully off to bed knowing in my dreams the wsop will be there with all the TV and microphone stuck in my face and some
lady in suspenders will be beckoning me .....then I'll wake up and go .. uggghhhhhhhh ) glk m8
so whats your problem with me eh? come on just tell me straight. you not see what that muppet charly sumin wrote on the 1st page of this thread??
This is a very good point and as a result i shall support you fully in the future and one day hope to be a good player
its in big writing and only about 6 words long ends with ........ if i remember rightly lol but didn't take much notice lol as for yours though blackfish I don't know why everyone is pointing yours out it was just a saying not so much an insulting post and as it turned out was only sarcasm, which I must say I didn't notice first time round but I didn't see it as insulting or the 'one exception' at all.
anyways been nice to catch up on the forums today might still be on for a little bit yet anyone wants to chat well I will keep checking this or just pm me lol
all the best buddy x