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Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?

edited April 2017 in Poker Chat
I remember Shaun Deeb doing an interview for a P5's podcast while he was playing 17 tables. My game on the other hand goes down the toilet if I am playing 2 or 3 tables and the phone rings... 

I do have quite a busy house with my partner, my son, 2 dogs and 2 cats and it feels like an extreme challenge trying to concentrate at times. There always seems to be a phone ringing, dog wanting attention or someone chapping the front door to see if I would like to convert to being a Mormon or join the latest super duper electricity/gas tariff.

I do on occassion lock myself away upstairs in the bedroom and play and generally do a little better (that is the plan for tomorrow nights £4k package final). However if I am playing for 5 or 6 hours it feels a little anti-social and can be boring being locked away in another room so this is not ideal either.

So do distractions bother you? Can you offer any advice on dealing with them?

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  • edited April 2017
    Personal preference is to just listen to music. If I'm watching TV or mucking about on my phone, I just don't feel as focused. I've a similar set up with a wife, 3 girls and two dogs so I feel your pain!

    All will be quiet tomorrow night for the 4K package final though, let's hope we both make the final table ;)
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    Personal preference is to just listen to music. If I'm watching TV or mucking about on my phone, I just don't feel as focused. I've a similar set up with a wife, 3 girls and two dogs so I feel your pain! All will be quiet tomorrow night for the 4K package final though, let's hope we both make the final table ;)
    Posted by nickkay
    Yes GL Nickkay!

    I do listen to music sometimes and it definitely can help, good shout on that one :)
  • edited April 2017
    Yup similar situation for me, 3 kids and a dog, always busy. Tournies are always hard because of the amount of time you need to dedicate. I have just bought some wireless headphones and I do find that it makes it a lot easier to focus.  It's better than being locked away in a different room for 2/3 hours, everyone leaves you alone but I can still make sure that things don't get to crazy.  Good luck in the vegas final guys.
  • edited April 2017
    I know what you mean mate. The ideal answer is obviously to go and play in a quiet room on yur own or stick some headphones in a listen to music. As you say though it isn't ideal as far as the family life goes and the missus soon starts to moan that you aren't spending enough quality time with her and the kids etc. 

    If you played for a living then you really need to be on your A game and giving it your full attention, but then you could say to the the missus that your time on the computer playing poker is being "at work".

    I play most of my poker sat on the sofa with the missus and kids and the tv on in the backround. This is far from ideal but I rarely play more than 4 tables and find that I can focus reasonably well on the action. Besides it's only ever been a hobby for me so I'm not going to sit in a different room from the rest of the family night after night to play.

    Obviously there are exceptions. If, like you, I was playing the VLV final then I would 100% lock myself away, maybe stick some headphones in and give it my full attention. 

    Best of luck to both nickkay and yourself in the final btw.
  • edited April 2017
    same here but i find shouting and swearing helps oh no wait they all just laugh at me (includind dog ) so actually im not very good with distractions as my recent results will testify to
  • edited April 2017
    No friends, no wife or significant other, no kids, no pets.

    Still can't win but at least give losing my full attention.
  • edited April 2017
    Ha! Ha! lol you're a winner in my book ;)
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    No friends, no wife or significant other, no kids, no pets. Still can't win but at least give losing my full attention.
    Posted by hhyftrftdr
    I find this really HARD to believe...you're a  loser?  ;-)
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    No friends, no wife or significant other, no kids, no pets. Still can't win but at least give losing my full attention.
    Posted by hhyftrftdr


      Knew Jimi was bluffing when he said you were on holiday with ur latest squeeze. :)
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    No friends, no wife or significant other, no kids, no pets. Still can't win but at least give losing my full attention.
    Posted by hhyftrftdr
    Some bits of this are quite sad.Not sure which bits though.
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker? : Some bits of this are quite sad.Not sure which bits though.
    Posted by chilling
    REALLY?  Harry has the life I aspire to!!!

    NOT the losing obvs...
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    No friends, no wife or significant other, no kids, no pets. Still can't win but at least give losing my full attention.
    Posted by hhyftrftdr
    Not only that, this poor man's name suggests that he is suffering from Irritable Vowel Syndrome :)
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker? : Not only that, this poor man's name suggests that he is suffering from Irritable Vowel Syndrome :)
    Posted by Essexphil
    wp :-)

  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker? : Some bits of this are quite sad.Not sure which bits though.
    Posted by chilling
    double post 2hrs apart how do you do it?
    headphones with pink floyd on that does it for me 
  • edited April 2017
    God knows, ive been on a school memories site and chatting to an old mate.I think Misty knows the secret.
    Ah, i did come back on here to place a bet. Also , Marky never mentioned his lairy neighbours in distractions.
  • edited April 2017
    I prefer playing in front room with TV on and chatting to wife :)
    good luck in final chaos.
  • edited April 2017
    Distractions FTW!  ??
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker? :   Knew Jimi was bluffing when he said you were on holiday with ur latest squeeze. :)
    Posted by pomfrittes
    Latest squeeze was in reference to him getting himself in the aeroplane seat
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    In Response to Re: Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker? : Latest squeeze was in reference to him getting himself in the aeroplane seat
    Posted by MattBates

    Sick of airlines continually reducing seat width.
  • edited April 2017
    In Response to Just wondering how everyone deals with distractions while playing poker?:
    I remember Shaun Deeb doing an interview for a P5's podcast while he was playing 17 tables. My game on the other hand goes down the toilet if I am playing 2 or 3 tables and the phone rings...  I do have quite a busy house with my partner, my son, 2 dogs and 2 cats and it feels like an extreme challenge trying to concentrate at times. There always seems to be a phone ringing, dog wanting attention or someone chapping the front door to see if I would like to convert to being a Mormon or join the latest super duper electricity/gas tariff. I do on occassion lock myself away upstairs in the bedroom and play and generally do a little better (that is the plan for tomorrow nights £4k package final). However if I am playing for 5 or 6 hours it feels a little anti-social and can be boring being locked away in another room so this is not ideal either. So do distractions bother you? Can you offer any advice on dealing with them?
    Posted by markycash
    You just got to deal with it the best you can mate. Set aside grinding time and leisure time, don't mix the two. Lock yourself away and put a big red sign on the door saying 'Do not disturb'.

    Being a poker pro is generally incompatible with people in the real world. A poker pro leads a semi-nocturnal lifestyle, playing evenings/nights and weekends, because that's when most games run. Compare that to people with normal lives - they are at work/school from 9-5, evenings and weekends are for relaxing and socialising.

    There's a reason why most pros are young males with no gf and no kids ;)
  • edited April 2017
    For me the key is starting your session completely relaxed and refreshed, if you 100% in the correct zone when you start then any distractions shouldnt affect you too much, but if im not in the correct zone then any little distubance can throw me completely off my game, i try to stick to the same routine whenever i know im going to be playing a long poker session..

    Exercise (generally a 10min walk to the shop or a quick jog around the local park)
    Dinner, 
    Bath (whack on some candles for a proper treat)
    Pint of water 
    then finally a vanilla latte as i start my session.

    the only issue is, if something interupts my pre game routine or i have to do it in a different order etc then i never feel confident when i start, but maybe thats just ocd on my part. 
  • edited April 2017
    every 1 is diferent i suppose i cant play with distractions i treat poker as a job as i play about 8 hrs a day play from 6-2am most nights as i dont work    i have to listen to music gets me in the mood to play or some tv on in the background i cant have anything of id get bored 
  • edited April 2017
    Will keep the tips in mind for tonight.

    Quiet room

    Headphones on with some music

    Jog round the park (already done the walk round the park with the dogs)

    Pint of water (substituted for coffee)

    Vanilla latte (substituted for a stockpile of smokes)

    Dinner (Cadbury's cream egg easter egg & might throw a sandwich together)


  • edited April 2017

    For a player like you who takes his game seriously rather than simply doing it for amusement and a gamble on the side, it is important to focus with as near to 100% attention as possible on the game. Distractions do not allow you to do that....

    The reason why I state this simple and obvious point is because Poker is about making money and is unique in the fact that you can lose money as well as win it. That means there is a risk element, just like if you were investing funds in the stock market. Up or down, down or up.

    Now, bearing in mind that there is this risk element (and if you are playing mid-high stakes poker then quit a considerable one) then it has be treated as a priority. In other words, it doesn't matter about the wife or the kids, or the dogs, or the postman, or the Jehovah's witnesses knocking at the door. Poker time is poker time and it needs to have a designated time during which there are no distractions (unless of course there is some sort of emergency and you have to rush off).

    Lock yourself away during Poker sessions. Try and play your most important sessions during the quietest times when nobody is around or they are busy doing something. If people are around then tell them you are doing the Poker and the priority it is and put ear muffs on if necessary to block out any sound (or headphones/earplugs for music if that works for you).

    Only you can know what works for you. So make sure you find some methods, try them all out and stick to the ones that do. For me it is about space and quiet time. I tell people I am busy and I don't even move to answer the door or the phone. I turn off my mobile and I make sure I am not distracted by other things such as social media etc (and if I do look at stuff between games then it is Poker related).

    I also find that getting up and walking around my room occasionally as well as stretching off my arms and legs helps my comfort level and allows me to concentrate for longer. Sometimes I splash water on my face and in my eyes to wake me up. Anything to improve my focus.

    A combination of things usually works best. Hope something there helps :-)

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