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The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary)

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  • edited March 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary) : If you plan on surviving past your 50's then I would consider sorting this out lol Have a great time in vegas btw
    Posted by waller02
    Lol yeah... writing this at 1:50am I feel like I might have to alter the poker schedule slightly... although tonight its cause I binked something :)
  • edited March 2014
    BOOM.

    Mtts have been going... whats the word.... AWFUL recently.  Absolutely terrible.  Think i've been playing pretty poorly in general trying to force a win from somewhere.

    But tonight it all came together.  It didnt start well as i regged for 5 MTTs on stars and only made 1 min cash.  I regged all the DTD and spewed in ALL of them.  Main I couldnt get going and i finished about 25th or something in mini.

    But I decided to late reg the 9pm £55 BH out of pure spite cause I was out of pretty much everything else!

    I built a stack... got a tad lucky and was chip leader for most of the tournament.  Putting pressure on stacks I managed to FT, get to HU and bink it for £1.1k!

    Shout out to Mr Bates who again had another deep run.  He was very complimentary of me when I won which is nice!  It did help that I had position on him entire final table and could apply max pressure.
    gazza1273520001£627 + £475.11 Head Prizes10£137.52
    MattBates02£402.60 + £118.44 Head Prizes3
    Phew!  Was beginning to think I had lost my mojo.
  • edited March 2014
    Skype from Gaz at 9.19pm..."I've lost my MTT mojo" Sick bluff from my man Gaz, made me think I might have a chance of beating him.

    Gaz played really well, had position on me and put maximum pressure on me. He knows I understand ICM and put me in a coffin in a few spots when he 3 bet me.

    WP sir!

    P.S. I still think you are a fish!
  • edited March 2014
    Well played last night Gazza

    Saw your rather early exit in the roller.
    Really good that you held it together after that to end up having a pretty good night. :)
  • edited March 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    Well played last night Gazza Saw your rather early exit in the roller. Really good that you held it together after that to end up having a pretty good night. :)
    Posted by Jac35

    Thanks Jac.

    Yeah it was pretty annoying my exit from roller... on the SECOND HAND.  There was me getting excited about a Super Roller and boom im out after aproxiamately a minute.

    I tried to keep the pot conservative pre as I definitely didnt want to get my chips in the middle for a flip pre.  Maybe I should fold pre at some point.  It may have been the best thing to do when things started to get out of hand with the tournament being so early... however after the flop I think I have little other option than to take a punt at it with decent equity.  There are few other flops i'd go with this hand.  This just happened to be one.
    danny1958 Small blind   20.00 20.00 9940.00
    TIMBER Big blind   40.00 60.00 9960.00
      Your hole cards
    • A
    • K
         
    cpfc_2010 Fold        
    lilymia Fold        
    gazza127 Raise   120.00 180.00 9940.00
    blankyboy Raise   200.00 380.00 9780.00
    danny1958 Raise   260.00 640.00 9680.00
    TIMBER Fold        
    gazza127 Call   160.00 800.00 9780.00
    blankyboy Raise   960.00 1760.00 8820.00
    danny1958 Call   880.00 2640.00 8800.00
    gazza127 Call   880.00 3520.00 8900.00
    Flop
       
    • J
    • Q
    • 3
         
    danny1958 Bet   3520.00 7040.00 5280.00
    gazza127 All-in   8900.00 15940.00 0.00
    blankyboy All-in   8820.00 24760.00 0.00
    danny1958 All-in   5280.00 30040.00 0.00
    gazza127 Unmatched bet   80.00 29960.00 80.00
    danny1958 Show
    • J
    • J
         
    gazza127 Show
    • A
    • K
         
    blankyboy Show
    • A
    • A
         
    Turn
       
    • 3
         
    River
       
    • 4
         
    danny1958 Win Full House, Jacks and 3s 29920.00   29920.00
    blankyboy Win Two Pairs, Aces and 3s 40.00   40.00
    Thoughts?


    Anyway... as you've alluded to Jac I ended up having an OK night.  Ran OK in mini roller and was 10/10.  Managed to get a DU 66 />KQ and pushed on to take it down for a nice bink!
    gazza127  1425000  1  £743.85
    I've also been trialling stars with very little success recently... in fact none.  However I imagine its a learning process getting used to full ring instead of the 6 max ive been playing my entire poker life.  Even so I managed to cut my losses last night by winning a $11 180 man SNG Bounty thingy for about $500.

    A good night all in all!


  • edited April 2014
    I haven't been putting in decent volume recently on Sky.  Things have been OK, however i've just taken a bit of a stepback from grinding cash.

    Not sure why.  Perhaps im just getting a bit tired.

    There isn't much (well any) traffic on this thread.  Im thinking i'll continue to update this thread occassionally until my trip to Vegas in late May/June, write up my experience and let the thread whither and die in the nether regions on the sky forum.

    It'd be a year since I started this thread when I come back from Vegas.  Perhaps its the ideal time to call it quits.
  • edited April 2014
    Hey mate

    Most people read them and just don't post on them buddy.

    Been some year for you since you started your "diary".

    If you feel it helps stay focussed defo continue it, or if not, you can always come back to it later.

    Enjoy Vegas, sounds awesome:)
  • edited April 2014
    Just home from Vegas, had a blast!  Very jealous.  The big wheel just opened on Monday, might be worth a spin ;)
  • edited April 2014
    I wanted to get some live practice in before vegas so tonight I managed to convince a few friends to go to Grosvener (sp?) Casino in Reading.  They arent poker players but swayed them as we had little better to do.


    We get there and there is two cash tables running, both £1/2.  I sit down with £200 and one of my mates decides to join me with a slightly shorter stack. We've both only ever played live cash once before, however im a lot more experienced as he doesnt play online.  As a result he is uber tight with his money.  If you are in a hand with him and he calls one street, you are probably drawing dead.


    Naturally before playing any hands I decide I will play sensible.  No barrelling or raising with air etc.  I didnt fancy a reload so thought id nit it up a bit, especially as we were 9 handed.  5 minutes in I have over half my stack in the middle with K high after triple barrelling.  Doh!  I convinced myself that he was on a draw from the flop (was very draw heavy) and thought I could shift him off his hand.  Lucky for me he tank folded the river! 


    Another hand of note:


    Utg limps.  Utg+1 limps.  I have KJs and decide to raise to £12.  The button calls.  So does BB and UTG and UTG+1. So the pot is something like £49.


    Flop comes down 256hh.  I decide not to c bet and it gets checked around. Turn is an offsuit J.  BB leads for £40 leaving £30 behind.  Others fold.  We do???  I sat there thinking for a good couple of minutes as it was super easy for him to have a set or two pair and have me beat.  I decide to stick him all in eventually and he turns over Jx and mucks his kicker. Still unsure about the call from me but those who have played live cash can know how lively it is.

    Anyway I finished the night £200 up, treated my mates to a kebab and that was that.  My third ever live outing and my third profitible one.  Heres hoping the run can continue onto vegas! 
  • edited April 2014
    nice one Gazza!
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    I wanted to get some live practice in before vegas so tonight I managed to convince a few friends to go to Grosvener (sp?) Casino in Reading.  They arent poker players but swayed them as we had little better to do. We get there and there is two cash tables running, both £1/2.  I sit down with £200 and one of my mates decides to join me with a slightly shorter stack. We've both only ever played live cash once before, however im a lot more experienced as he doesnt play online.  As a result he is uber tight with his money.  If you are in a hand with him and he calls one street, you are probably drawing dead. Naturally before playing any hands I decide I will play sensible.  No barrelling or raising with air etc.  I didnt fancy a reload so thought id nit it up a bit, especially as we were 9 handed.  5 minutes in I have over half my stack in the middle with K high after triple barrelling.  Doh!  I convinced myself that he was on a draw from the flop (was very draw heavy) and thought I could shift him off his hand.  Lucky for me he tank folded the river!  Another hand of note: Utg limps.  Utg+1 limps.  I have KJs and decide to raise to £12.  The button calls.  So does BB and UTG and UTG+1. So the pot is something like £49. Flop comes down 256hh.  I decide not to c bet and it gets checked around. Turn is an offsuit J.  BB leads for £40 leaving £30 behind.  Others fold.  We do???  I sat there thinking for a good couple of minutes as it was super easy for him to have a set or two pair and have me beat.  I decide to stick him all in eventually and he turns over Jx and mucks his kicker. Still unsure about the call from me but those who have played live cash can know how lively it is. Anyway I finished the night £200 up, treated my mates to a kebab and that was that.  My third ever live outing and my third profitible one.  Heres hoping the run can continue onto vegas! 
    Posted by gazza127

    Great read this one G! Nice work as well.

    Do you ever play live tourneys?

    I've played in 3 now and not done much in any. I just can't figure out how to play them. Last night for example, there was people reraising with hands like J5o.

    Normally if there's raising action before me and I'm holding K10 for example, I'll probably muck it. Especially given that it's usually 9 handed rather than 6 max like we have on sky, I play a bit tighter. But seeing the cards people turn over at showdown, it looks like K10 is a monster in comparison to the junk some people will play.

    How do you approach these games - just because they are willing to play terrible hands doesn't mean they aren't holding a massive hand. 

    I've tried the 'play tight and wait til you have a reasonable hand' approach, but I just haven't been dealt anything particularly good. I then find myself low on chips due to the blinds increasing and having to shove. 

    Do I have to find more bluff spots, or are perhaps my playing hand requirements too tight? Or is just that I've not played enough live games and perhaps I've just not had the luck of the draw with regards to the hands I've been dealt?

    Sorry to derail your blog slightly here.

  • edited April 2014
    +1 to Larson, I always find myself reading this diary even though I don't always post! KJ hand is completely standard and I would never consider folding there! Any time you have TP with a good kicker in a live game you are almost always good!


  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary) : Great read this one G! Nice work as well. Do you ever play live tourneys? I've played in 3 now and not done much in any. I just can't figure out how to play them. Last night for example, there was people reraising with hands like J5o. Normally if there's raising action before me and I'm holding K10 for example, I'll probably muck it. Especially given that it's usually 9 handed rather than 6 max like we have on sky, I play a bit tighter. But seeing the cards people turn over at showdown, it looks like K10 is a monster in comparison to the junk some people will play. How do you approach these games - just because they are willing to play terrible hands doesn't mean they aren't holding a massive hand.  I've tried the 'play tight and wait til you have a reasonable hand' approach, but I just haven't been dealt anything particularly good. I then find myself low on chips due to the blinds increasing and having to shove.  Do I have to find more bluff spots, or are perhaps my playing hand requirements too tight? Or is just that I've not played enough live games and perhaps I've just not had the luck of the draw with regards to the hands I've been dealt? Sorry to derail your blog slightly here.
    Posted by PokerNoon
    Oh to the differences between live and online.
    I have cashed in 4/7 live tournaments recently including a 2 day tourney full of sharks.

    I run so much worse online.

    They really are two different games.  sure learning one provides you with skills you can use in the other but at the end of the day you need to learn to play what's needed.  Don't think being a good live player will make you a good online player and vice versa
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary) : Oh to the differences between live and online. I have cashed in 4/7 live tournaments recently including a 2 day tourney full of sharks. I run so much worse online. They really are two different games.  sure learning one provides you with skills you can use in the other but at the end of the day you need to learn to play what's needed.  Don't think being a good live player will make you a good online player and vice versa
    Posted by GELDY
    Impressive..well currently I rate myself as an 'ok' online player (ie breakeven) and a terrible live player.

    What are the main differences in your mind between online and live then Geldy?
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary) : Great read this one G! Nice work as well. Do you ever play live tourneys? I've played in 3 now and not done much in any. I just can't figure out how to play them. Last night for example, there was people reraising with hands like J5o. Normally if there's raising action before me and I'm holding K10 for example, I'll probably muck it. Especially given that it's usually 9 handed rather than 6 max like we have on sky, I play a bit tighter. But seeing the cards people turn over at showdown, it looks like K10 is a monster in comparison to the junk some people will play. How do you approach these games - just because they are willing to play terrible hands doesn't mean they aren't holding a massive hand.  I've tried the 'play tight and wait til you have a reasonable hand' approach, but I just haven't been dealt anything particularly good. I then find myself low on chips due to the blinds increasing and having to shove.  Do I have to find more bluff spots, or are perhaps my playing hand requirements too tight? Or is just that I've not played enough live games and perhaps I've just not had the luck of the draw with regards to the hands I've been dealt? Sorry to derail your blog slightly here.
    Posted by PokerNoon
    Well it could be a whole range of things like this I suppose.  Im not nearly enough qualified to say what it takes to be a decent live player.  i've only done it three times.

    However there are a few things I have realised.

    Cash - it is easy to see who is playing with 'scared money'.  People who BI shallow, limp a lot, hate people who raise etc etc.  Last night I was on a table of serial limpers, some of which were happy to call a big raise pre... a lot who didnt want to know about it.  A guy sits down two to my right and realises he can isolate almost every hand he wants to play pre.  Noticing this I start cold 4 betting him.  You have to be able to spot those who trying to take advantage of the situation and take advantage of them... the same as online in many ways.

    You can't sit and wait for a hand, particularly in MTTs.  Yes its better to be TAG at the begininng of the tournament, but if you spot people who are willing to 3 bet J5o you have to be able to 4 bet wider as the tournament shallows slightly... even cold 4 betting as you look so strong.  Just make sure you do it in the right spots against the right people.  Table image for our opponents and us comes into this a great deal.

    It is true that possibly the cards/players havent suited this in your experiences.  After all poker (as people keep telling me) is a long game.  Online we are able to play 5,6,7, 8+ MTTs a night.  Live we get one shot at a time.  This can make people play tighter naturally as you dont want to exit, but it also increases the appearance of variance.  Without a large sample size... none of this means too much.

    Ultimately if we have a reasoning for what we are doing each hand and make the right moves we should be OK long term.

    Sidebar - 9 max plays a bit tighter than 6 max.  So if you are so used to 6 max it may be an idea to test the waters with 9 max online and get used to what ranges you need to have in each position/situation.
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    Yes its better to be TAG at the begininng of the tournament, but if you spot people who are willing to 3 bet J5o you have to be able to 4 bet wider as the tournament shallows slightly... even cold 4 betting as you look so strong.  Just make sure you do it in the right spots against the right people.  Table image for our opponents and us comes into this a great deal. It is true that possibly the cards/players havent suited this in your experiences. 
    Thanks for your response gazza, much appreciated - useful stuff as well.

    I tried to pick a spot in the tourney I was talking about...I was in the CO with 9 10 off, there's an early raiser and caller so I do a 3.5x raise, having seen both of these people enter a lot of pots.

    I knew by this point I had a very tight table image (which I found amusing, because nobody ever believes me online).

    Everyone around the table reacted as 'wow, this guy hasn't played a hand in half an hour, he must have aces'.

    The SB even said as much...but still called along. The previous caller also calls so we enter the flop 3 way.

    Flop comes down Qxx. SB checks, the caller then bets into me.

    This makes me think. I haven't hit the flop and it's unlikely I'll have the best hand at any point. However usually I see donk bets as a sign that the person has hit the board but not massively. So I call behind, expecting a check on the turn and then I could steal the pot.

    Then the SB goes all in...the bettor calls and I obviously fold. 

    SB had QK, caller had Q6. So would you say my thinking here was alright? I mean if it had been a K that came down instead of a Q, neither of them would have hit and I would have taken down the pot. Can I consider myself unlucky that both of them hit the flop in this spot?
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary) : Thanks for your response gazza, much appreciated - useful stuff as well. I tried to pick a spot in the tourney I was talking about...I was in the CO with 9 10 off, there's an early raiser and caller so I do a 3.5x raise, having seen both of these people enter a lot of pots. I knew by this point I had a very tight table image (which I found amusing, because nobody ever believes me online). Everyone around the table reacted as 'wow, this guy hasn't played a hand in half an hour, he must have aces'. The SB even said as much...but still called along. The previous caller also calls so we enter the flop 3 way. Flop comes down Qxx. SB checks, the caller then bets into me. This makes me think. I haven't hit the flop and it's unlikely I'll have the best hand at any point. However usually I see donk bets as a sign that the person has hit the board but not massively. So I call behind, expecting a check on the turn and then I could steal the pot. Then the SB goes all in...the bettor calls and I obviously fold.  SB had QK, caller had Q6. So would you say my thinking here was alright? I mean if it had been a K that came down instead of a Q, neither of them would have hit and I would have taken down the pot. Can I consider myself unlucky that both of them hit the flop in this spot?
    Posted by PokerNoon
    As played I don't mind the 3 bet pre if both are entering a lot of pots, however we need to know that we fold out some of villains range.  If they are calling all of their range and not folding once theyve hit the board, then all the 3 bet achieves is inflating the pot.  Yes, we can therefore win a bigger pot if the c-bet takes it down but it is a higher variant line.

    Once the guy bets into us its an easy fold.  We dont know what the guy in the SB has/if he is interested and we dont know if we are capable of shifting the guy off the pot anyway.  It sounds like SB is quite shallow too which means the float is going to work even less of the time if he's cold called pre.  Muck our hand and find another spot imo.

    As said before, these things only need to work x% of the time to be profitable.  One example shouldnt sway you from doing one thing to another.  The real question is if it works long term.  If it isnt profitable long term, then perhaps we are isolating the wrong people at the wrong time.  We have to be wary of those that have acted before us, but also those behind us.  Im less inclined to make a move like this if there are shallow stacks behind and ive priced myself in to call a shove.

    Table image then goes out the window when you are forced to show your hand.
  • edited April 2014
    On my biggest ever downswing on cash.

    Its brutal.

    Sets over sets. Flushes over flushes.  Quads over nut FHs.  Straights over straights.  Straight flushes rivering nut flushes.  Countless amounts of runner runners and of course all your standard AK<AA KK<AA AA<KK  AA<AK all in pre nonsense.

    Im not trying to moan.  Its just how it is.  It really is that brutal.

    Im not even tilting.  Im just completely numb to it.  I'd be holding the second nuts and just know he has the nuts, but I know itd be a massive losing play long term if i folded just in case he had two very specific cards.  Its just recently they have it.  Every.  Single.  Time.

    Confidence isnt gone.  Its obliterated.  So's my bank roll on the other site.

    Im expecting someone to say 'Thats poker... its just variance'.  Well yes but I don't give a fig right now.

    I just want to win one bloody hand.
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    On my biggest ever downswing on cash. Its brutal. Sets over sets. Flushes over flushes.  Quads over nut FHs.  Straights over straights.  Straight flushes rivering nut flushes.  Countless amounts of runner runners and of course all your standard AK<AA KK<AA AA<KK  AA<AK all in pre nonsense. Im not trying to moan.  Its just how it is.  It really is that brutal. Im not even tilting.  Im just completely numb to it.  I'd be holding the second nuts and just know he has the nuts, but I know itd be a massive losing play long term if i folded just in case he had two very specific cards.  Its just recently they have it.  Every.  Single.  Time. Confidence isnt gone.  Its obliterated.  So's my bank roll on the other site. Im expecting someone to say 'Thats poker... its just variance'.  Well yes but I don't give a fig right now. I just want to win one bloody hand.
    Posted by gazza127
    Chin up mate. You've been there before and always come flying back with a big win........keep the faith
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    Probably don't wanna hear this now,  but you know me ;) ...

    Going to grind cash on stars over Sky is a terrrrrible idea imo. And I'd bet anything it's affecting your downswing... obv KK<AA etc is gonna happen on every site BUT if you were playing in softer games, you'd be beating them more (longterm) so you would almost certainly be losing less right now and you'd be able to cushion the blow of the runbad by winning pots off easier opponents.
  • edited April 2014
    Fallen out of love with poker.

    Made a bad call AK v AA all in pre.  I knew it was a fold but thought just maybe he had spewed off with worse.

    Its no fun anymore.  No doubt i'll play in Vegas but as far as online goes im finished.

    Done.

    Finito.

    End.


    I'm hoping the bug will hit me again sometime but I don't see it happening anytime soon. 

    Good luck all.  Hope youre all doing/running better than me.
  • edited April 2014
    Now this isnt a poker related post... however I'd like some unbiased opinions if people are willing to give them.

    As some of you may know I've been working as an Analyst in a Football Statistical Company for about a year now.  I've had trouble with contracts/job security/my boss for almost the entirety of this time.  Its a start up company so I realise I needed to give it time to grow, and might still need to, however it looks like (with the current boss in charge at least) that the company is going nowhere fast.

    I applied for another job 2 weeks ago at Bet365.  Its a trading position where they give me training for 6 months then im a trading assistant which then becomes a sports trader role if/when i prove myself.  I got an interview and found out today that they want me for the job.  Only issue is that the job is in Stoke.

    I currently live between Oxford and High Wycombe and my entire social life is in this area.  I had thought that if I were to leave my current role I'd get a job in London and move in with some mates... however this new opportunity has arisen.

    Essentially I'd like to know if you were me, what would you do?  Would you move to Stoke, leaving family and friends for the forseeable future to pursue a career I enjoy in a more stable company - one with more opportunities.... would you stay put and see where the current company is headed... or would you apply to more jobs in London, closer to what you know, cause after all if one company wants you... another one theoritically will want you too?

    I've got a week to decide and im not entirely sure.  Family think I should take it.  Friends less sure.  I think its a great opportunity but will have to make a lot of sacrifices including my social life, playing football at the weekends, poker etc

    I know its difficult to put your feet in my shoes so if you can relate my situation with one you've been in and give me some advice that'd be great.
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    Now this isnt a poker related post... however I'd like some unbiased opinions if people are willing to give them. As some of you may know I've been working as an Analyst in a Football Statistical Company for about a year now.  I've had trouble with contracts/job security/my boss for almost the entirety of this time.  Its a start up company so I realise I needed to give it time to grow, and might still need to, however it looks like (with the current boss in charge at least) that the company is going nowhere fast. I applied for another job 2 weeks ago at Bet365.  Its a trading position where they give me training for 6 months then im a trading assistant which then becomes a sports trader role if/when i prove myself.  I got an interview and found out today that they want me for the job.  Only issue is that the job is in Stoke. I currently live between Oxford and High Wycombe and my entire social life is in this area.  I had thought that if I were to leave my current role I'd get a job in London and move in with some mates... however this new opportunity has arisen. Essentially I'd like to know if you were me, what would you do?  Would you move to Stoke, leaving family and friends for the forseeable future to pursue a career I enjoy in a more stable company - one with more opportunities.... would you stay put and see where the current company is headed... or would you apply to more jobs in London, closer to what you know, cause after all if one company wants you... another one theoritically will want you too? I've got a week to decide and im not entirely sure.  Family think I should take it.  Friends less sure.  I think its a great opportunity but will have to make a lot of sacrifices including my social life, playing football at the weekends, poker etc I know its difficult to put your feet in my shoes so if you can relate my situation with one you've been in and give me some advice that'd be great.
    Posted by gazza127
    How you keeping. 

    Bro. Ill taker the opportunity to go to Stoke. Life is about risks sometimes and if Stoke presents itself in being the place to go career wise, I would take it. Think about it, im sure you can always visit family and friends every so often come the weekend plus im sure its cheaper living costs in Northern England rather than the hussle and bussle of London. ON TOP OF THAT consider what your earnings will be after six months...UP NORTH doing the job you want to do. Afterwards, if opportunity presents itself in London and your still wishing to move then you got that experience under your belt

    IMO, from the person I gathert you to be reading your posts, a move to Stoke is a no brainer.

    REAL TALK...GO FOR IT!!

    PS: Just make sure if this post is your inspiration in moving to Stoke, I expect some betting tips from you free of charge :P
  • edited April 2014
    Well, as is the case with a lot of questions, the answer is: it depends.

    The sacrifices you have listed – social life, playing football at the weekends, playing poker – do not have to be tossed aside. Moving to Stoke doesn’t have to mean the end of these things at all – all it really means is that you will have to make new friends and find a new venue to play football. Poker is not bound by geography. And to be honest, there comes a time in the life of most when we must leave those we know and love and carve out our own little mark in this world. Sometimes it happens when we’re nineteen, sometimes not until we’re much older; but live our own life, we must.

    It boils down to what is important to you. If career and the furtherance of it tips the scales, then it seems like a move to Stoke is in order; but if you value family and friendship above all else, then perhaps you should stay where you are and try to find something in your local area. This being said, just because you may stay for others does not mean they will necessarily do the same for you.

    Say you make the decision to stay ‘between Oxford and High Wycombe’ and then in six months or a year most of those people you have stayed for decide to move on to pastures new? How would you feel then?
     Maybe you could stay and a similarly fantastic opportunity will present itself in your local area – it happens. But what if it doesn’t? Will you be kicking yourself for not taking the opportunity when you had it, or will you be happy enough to shrug your shoulders and say: oh well, it wasn’t meant to be?

    If you do stay, don’t regret not going; and if you leave, don’t regret that either. Make the decision and stick with it, because that’s the only way it will work, whichever side of the fence you land on.

    Good luck, and it hope it works out for you - whatever you decide.
  • edited April 2014
    In Response to Re: The ramblings of a young man (gazza127 diary):
    Now this isnt a poker related post... however I'd like some unbiased opinions if people are willing to give them. As some of you may know I've been working as an Analyst in a Football Statistical Company for about a year now.  I've had trouble with contracts/job security/my boss for almost the entirety of this time.  Its a start up company so I realise I needed to give it time to grow, and might still need to, however it looks like (with the current boss in charge at least) that the company is going nowhere fast. I applied for another job 2 weeks ago at Bet365.  Its a trading position where they give me training for 6 months then im a trading assistant which then becomes a sports trader role if/when i prove myself.  I got an interview and found out today that they want me for the job.  Only issue is that the job is in Stoke. I currently live between Oxford and High Wycombe and my entire social life is in this area.  I had thought that if I were to leave my current role I'd get a job in London and move in with some mates... however this new opportunity has arisen. Essentially I'd like to know if you were me, what would you do?  Would you move to Stoke, leaving family and friends for the forseeable future to pursue a career I enjoy in a more stable company - one with more opportunities.... would you stay put and see where the current company is headed... or would you apply to more jobs in London, closer to what you know, cause after all if one company wants you... another one theoritically will want you too? I've got a week to decide and im not entirely sure.  Family think I should take it.  Friends less sure.  I think its a great opportunity but will have to make a lot of sacrifices including my social life, playing football at the weekends, poker etc I know its difficult to put your feet in my shoes so if you can relate my situation with one you've been in and give me some advice that'd be great.
    Posted by gazza127

    bottom line is you gotta do what makes you most happy. people move away from there hometowns all the time to start a new chapter in life but it dosent mean you have to wipe out all contact with the place and lose everything you love about it, quite the opposite, do a job you like doing (there arnt many can say that ) and get back home on you're time off to see you're family and friends for a few jars etc. everyones a winner!!!! if your hesitant and cant make a decision deal AK v QQ, flip a flop turn and river, AK wins you stay QQ wins you go!!! best of luck :-)

  • edited April 2014
    Stoke?! You're gonna have to grow an extra digit to fit in with the locals ;)

    In all seriousness, this looks like a very promising opportunity. You're young, potentially about to embark on a new job within an industry you actually enjoy (how many 20 somethings can say that?!). It will probably be a bit daunting at first, but like with most things, time should ease you into your new surroundings. And it's not a million miles away from where you live now, if people want to visit once you have your feet under the table. If it all goes t1ts up, then at least you won't look back wondering what might have been....

    Plus its closer to DTD no? :)
  • edited April 2014
    Hey Gazza,

    I was in a similar spot to you going back 9 years now. Living in a pleasant little market town between Bristol and Bath at the time. Lots of friends in the area, family just 25 minutes away. Wife, 2 young kids and me all very happy and content.

    Got offered a job in Yorkshire, 25% pay rise and much more job security. Didn't sleep for a month mulling over the pros and cons, tossing and turning. Missus said she was happy either way, decision was all mine. Ended up taking it, haven't looked back. Lifes pretty good. Obviously I miss our friends and family from down there but made plenty of new friends and its a small island we live on and you're never far from anywhere. Oxford to Stoke around 2 hours?? Thats nowt.

    When I think back now deep down I knew from day 1 what I was gonna do and I reckon you probably do too. Go with your gut and whatever happens don't have regrets, lifes too short.

    Best of luck with whatever you decide.
  • edited April 2014
    I was afraid all you guys would say I should move.

    I think it might be the smart decision to take the job.  A job in such a big and reputable company like that will give me so many more opportunities in the future than I wouldn't have otherwise.  So maybe I can see it as a stepping stone thing where I don't plan to be up there longer than a year or two.  Who knows... I might actually like it up there and stick around.  I mean its not like I have to decide the next 10-15 years in the next week.  I can roll with it and see what happens.

    The reason why i've been pondering over it so much is cause im unlikely to be able to come back at weekends to see friends as i'd be working... im also likely to be working a lot of evenings so poker is almost off the table (even if im on a little hiatus anyway).  Suppose these are sacrifices i'll have to take to get to where I want to be.  Im not going to be happy unless im progressing in my career.  I don't like settling for what I have... I always aim higher.

    Its still a big move though... and a bit of a gamble... but you know me, i dont like folding much.  Meh... guess i'll have to take it.  *gulp*

    Incidentally ROCK i actually did your AK v QQ card thing.  Decided to run it 3 times to reduce variance.  First 15 cards out the deck... not one ace or king.  Guess that settles it!
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