In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : But insighting bigotry by claiming a woman cant do job just because she is a woman is not healthy. Just like a man she had to prove herself first before she got the job and she did. Can I ask if you went for an interview with all the ability and qualafications to be able to do the job and without interviewing you they decided you didnt look like you could do the job. Then later you found out they mocked you for even applying in the first place! Would this be OK in your view? We all have the right to think what we like but we also the responsability to use our words wisely and not try to stop others from doing what they have studied and trained to do just because we dont feel it is right. Posted by Donut64
Ok soo I take it that you believe for his comments/opinion on woman refs ability to do the job deserves the sack, by simply giving his opinion will WHAT? insight bigotry? everyone is in danger of his point of view?? He will corrupt people with his opinion??? WE all should have the same opinion or face the sack????
By the way, dont worry, the people in charge are firmly on your side, When the next generation comes along they will all be brainwashed, they will be told what to think enfocable by law.
we will have to agree to dissagree on this point, But I would never dream of taking away your ability to earn a living to survive because you held a different opinion than me no matter what you believed , Even if you were racest.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Yes he has to, putting aside his crude comments for a bit, IF you were in charge of sky would you have sacked him for his opinion on womans ref? Posted by NODEAL
on the point off the female ref no, suspended was right as not only us males think and say it but females say to too, imagine if it was a male ref, eg netball and the females said the same sexist comment so what ? but to be crude unexceptable.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : on the point off the female ref no, suspended was right as not only us males think and say it but females say to too, imagine if it was a male ref, eg netball and the females said the same sexist comment so what ? but to be crude unexceptable. Posted by spornybol
Sorry bud your point wasnt clear to me,,, can you put it any clearer
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : You do agree with me though that we all have a right to have/express our opinions right?? Posted by NODEAL
We are all entitled to express our own opinion, however, how and when we express that opinion is another matter. Whatever company we work for, we have duty to uphold the best interests of said company.
Derogatory comments of this nature should not be permitted in the workplace and are not in the best interests of the company. This does not mean that we should'nt have an opinion, but we should be aware of the rules for harassment in our working environment and keep our personal opinions separate from the work place.
If for instance if we worked for a well known crisps company, it might be our personal opinion that the crisps which they manufactured were rubbish, however, if you were to express this opinion publicly, your remarks would most likely result in disciplinary action.
I still hear many people make racist remarks in the pub from time to time, that is their personal opinion and theres nothing I can do about it, however, if these same remarks were made in a working environment then they would be disciplined.
So do we have "a right to express our opinions"?
Answer: Not in the workplace if it can be deemed as offensive.
Changes to the equality Act 2010 (Businesses) The definition of harassment now meansan employee who simply overhears an offensive comment, even if it's not directed at them, can hold a company legally responsible for it.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Sorry bud your point wasnt clear to me,,, can you put it any clearer Posted by NODEAL
over the comment about the female lines-women he got suspended thats fine, but the crude comment to the female presenter yes, but we also don`t know if there`s been previous complaint`s about his attitude to females in the industry
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Ok soo I take it that you believe for his comments/opinion on woman refs ability to do the job deserves the sack, by simply giving his opinion will WHAT? insight bigotry? everyone is in danger of his point of view?? He will corrupt people with his opinion??? WE all should have the same opinion or face the sack???? By the way, dont worry, the people in charge are firmly on your side, When the next generation comes along they will all be brainwashed, they will be told what to think enfocable by law. we will have to agree to dissagree on this point, But I would never dream of taking away your ability to earn a living to survive because you held a different opinion than me no matter what you believed , Even if you were racest. Posted by NODEAL
Yes I think they were right to sack him and the other two should go as well! I cant see why people should get away with Gender bigotry in the workplace any more than sexual harrasment or racial bigotry both of which are grounds for dismisal. Its seems strange to defend a mans job when his views are clearly the woman shouldnt of got her job because of her gender. So if he had his way she woundnt have her job but he would have his. I think we all have a right to our own opinion but I also think people have the right to get on with their lives without others trying to hold them back because of gender, race, sexuality or class. Hopefully thats me done on this subject.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : We are all entitled to express our own opinion, however, how and when we express that opinion is another matter. Whatever company we work for, we have duty to uphold the best interests of said company. Derogatory comments of this nature should not be permitted in the workplace and are not in the best interests of the company. This does not mean that we should'nt have an opinion, but we should be aware of the rules for harassment in our working environment and keep our personal opinions separate from the work place. If for instance if we worked for a well known crisps company, it might be our personal opinion that the crisps which they manufactured were rubbish, however, if you were to express this opinion publicly, your remarks would most likely result in disciplinary action. I still hear many people make racist remarks in the pub from time to time, that is their personal opinion and theres nothing I can do about it, however, if these same remarks were made in a working environment then they would be disciplined. So do we have " a right to express our opinions "? Answer: Not in the workplace if it can be deemed as offensive. Changes to the equality Act 2010 (Businesses) The definition of harassment now means an employee who simply overhears an offensive comment, even if it's not directed at them, can hold a company legally responsible for it . Posted by POKERTREV
An act is a rule enfored by law, there are lots of acts that infringe upon human rights and therefore cant be used as evidence to establish what is right and what is not, just because a company can hold someone legally responsable for someones comments does not refute my statements, I believe any company should be able to sack any employee for breaking thier rules, I am not saying they didnt have the right to sack him because clearly they do, I am saying that if he was sacked for his opinion on woman refs only then we all have something to think about regarding what is an acceptable opinion and what is not.
seems to me is that the majority of the population have bought into this idea and dont realy understand the implications of what can only be described as a monopoly media tell us all what opinions we should hold and sending the message that this is what happens to those who dont agree with us.
IF a person can be sacked for saying a woman ref is a stupid idea on national media then it is a big issue and imo should alert people to ask the question why is it soo bad?
My personal belief is that there is that this type of message will become more frequent and we all have ourselves to blame.
the law is only governed by the consent of the people, if we consent too much they will just keep making new rules/acts untill we can hardly say anything or turn a corner without breakking the law/rules.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : over the comment about the female lines-women he got suspended thats fine, but the crude comment to the female presenter yes, but we also don`t know if there`s been previous complaint`s about his attitude to females in the industry Posted by spornybol
the crude comments are completely different in that a human being is bringing a complaint to be answered to.
he has to acount for his actions in that case.
the opinion on the woman ref is merely an opinion and an opinion that is held by more than him, imo should be debated not squashed.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Yes I think they were right to sack him and the other two should go as well! I cant see why people should get away with Gender bigotry in the workplace any more than sexual harrasment or racial bigotry both of which are grounds for dismisal. Its seems strange to defend a mans job when his views are clearly the woman shouldnt of got her job because of her gender. So if he had his way she woundnt have her job but he would have his. I think we all have a right to our own opinion but I also think people have the right to get on with their lives without others trying to hold them back because of gender, race, sexuality or class. Hopefully thats me done on this subject. Posted by Donut64
LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR, A WOMAN REF IMO CANT DO THE JOB AS EFFICIENTLY AS A MAN
KEEPING UP WITH THE PLAY IS A BIG PART OF REFS JOB.
MEN ARE FASTER THAN WOMAN
FAT SLOW MEN SHOULD ALSO BE EXCLUDED FROM REFS JOB
IF THEY BROUGHT IN USING TV REPLAYS FOR ALL SITUATIONS IN FOOTBALL REFING THEN WOMAN WOULD BE ACCEPTABLE
IF I WORKED AS A TV PUNDET SHOULD I BE SACKED FOR AIRING MY OPINION?
WOULD A PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATION AGREE WITH ME?
SHOULD THIER OPINION BE HEARD?
SHOULD A MAN BE PUNNISHED FOR SEXUAL HARRASSMENT? YES WE DONT DISSAGREE ON THAT POINT
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Yes I think they were right to sack him and the other two should go as well! I cant see why people should get away with Gender bigotry in the workplace any more than sexual harrasment or racial bigotry both of which are grounds for dismisal. Its seems strange to defend a mans job when his views are clearly the woman shouldnt of got her job because of her gender. So if he had his way she woundnt have her job but he would have his. I think we all have a right to our own opinion but I also think people have the right to get on with their lives without others trying to hold them back because of gender, race, sexuality or class. Hopefully thats me done on this subject. Posted by Donut64
opinions are fine weather on/off camera i can`t see a problem even if sexist ( IF it comes across tongue in cheek) both genders do it , but to be crude is not acceptable,
Yes but Boys are STUPID. Hope this helps. Posted by LML
LOL yeah but have you noticed that it is mostly men that are disputing my points, lol the men are more brainwashed than the woman, My god all the single ladies out there better get a move on or there will be no more men left...lol
just a lot of femanist men in touch with thier female side fairies
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : LOL yeah but have you noticed that it is mostly men that are disputing my points, lol the men are more brainwashed than the woman, My god all the single ladies out there better get a move on or there will be no more men left...lol just a lot of femanist men in touch with thier female side fairies Posted by NODEAL
i am not ( as far as i know ) bisexual ( not after 40 yrs )
By the sounds of it...AG's comments are not isolated incidents..it now seems that this sort of behaviour has been systematic throughout his career and he is obviously used to saying these sorts of things to women off camera... I wonder how many young female colleagues, runners etc he has made inappropriate remarks to over the years??
Sadly, he was a name and probably the women were not. It's not really about the ref anymore..I for one was very disappointed to find out she had been removed from the Crewe v Bradford game!
Do I think AG should have been investigated and disciplined for his conduct in the workplace? Yes, however, it's surprising how it then enables those without a 'voice' to come forward...which highlights - publicly - how long and to what extent this has been going on for.
Do I think AG should keep his job JUST because he's on the telebox? No..but as any employee he has the right to appeal and I understand he is currently examining his options...
Re the OP...to try to compare AG's comments (a regular pundit on family friendly football matches) to the banter around Sky Poker (an over 18's gambling site & program) is irrelevant, I can only presume this comparason was to generate a reaction from the forum.
I for one would be extremely disappointed to find the poo, wee, sick, train, movies stories and banter between the analyst's, gallery and us stripped away from the channel...It's supposed to be entertainment!!!
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR, A WOMAN REF IMO CANT DO THE JOB AS EFFICIENTLY AS A MAN KEEPING UP WITH THE PLAY IS A BIG PART OF REFS JOB. MEN ARE FASTER THAN WOMAN FAT SLOW MEN SHOULD ALSO BE EXCLUDED FROM REFS JOB IF THEY BROUGHT IN USING TV REPLAYS FOR ALL SITUATIONS IN FOOTBALL REFING THEN WOMAN WOULD BE ACCEPTABLE IF I WORKED AS A TV PUNDET SHOULD I BE SACKED FOR AIRING MY OPINION? WOULD A PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATION AGREE WITH ME? SHOULD THIER OPINION BE HEARD? SHOULD A MAN BE PUNNISHED FOR SEXUAL HARRASSMENT? YES WE DONT DISSAGREE ON THAT POINT Posted by NODEAL
As we cant agree on wether a woman can do the job or not this debate is going no where. You say you dont believe a woman can ref a game efficiently and the people that know this woman and have tested her knowledge and physical ability say she can or they wouldnt of employed her. I fear that when she makes a mistake which they all do people will be easly convinced by the doubters of female refs it was because she was a women and not because she is only human. I fear all we have proved with this discussion is that we have both got far to much time on our hands!
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : As we cant agree on wether a woman can do the job or not this debate is going no where. You say you dont believe a woman can ref a game efficiently and the people that know this woman and have tested her knowledge and physical ability say she can or they wouldnt of employed her. I fear that when she makes a mistake which they all do people will be easly convinced by the doubters of female refs it was because she was a women and not because she is only human. I fear all we have proved with this discussion is that we have both got far to much time on our hands! Posted by Donut64
lol speak for urself paleface dono bout you but iv doing my books all day.
PS get a new photo bud you look like the ghost of christmass past with the one you have now
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : lol speak for urself paleface dono bout you but iv doing my books all day. PS get a new photo bud you look like the ghost of christmass past with the one you have now Posted by NODEAL
LOL. Thats about as good as I look these days! :O Ps Why have you not got a photo? Is it because you look worse than me? :P
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : LOL. Thats about as good as I look these days! :O Ps Why have you not got a photo? Is it because you look worse than me? :P Posted by Donut64
LOL in my humble opinion im a handsom basxxxd well so the ladies tell me
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : lol speak for urself paleface dono bout you but iv doing my books all day. PS get a new photo bud you look like the ghost of christmass past with the one you have now Posted by NODEAL
lose the battle have a dig....look at me doin my books all day...typical
Seen as you think its alright for people to express their stereotypical views I will say, as everyone in Scotland is always drunk they are bound to think you are more handsome than you are! ))))))))
Seen as you think its alright for people to express their stereotypical views I will say, as everyone in Scotland is always drunk they are bound to think you are more handsome than you are! )))))))) Posted by Donut64
I dont live in uk bud, but its nice to hear the views of people who live in lower scotland
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : lose the battle have a dig....look at me doin my books all day...typical Posted by stokefc
lol I wasnt having a dig, he confirmed he has to much time on his hands, and presumed im the same. good luck to him, AS for losing the battle.. lmao I answer peoples points, but alas they dont answer mine, I eventualy put my points bulletin fashion for anyone to refute Alas no takers.
there is no battle m8 only opinions and counter opinions, but if some get thier way there will only be one opinion and thats the one that is spoon fed to us.
In Response to Re: Double standards by Sky Broadcasting : Sooooo impatient!!! Stuck in traffic, couldn't park, 2 million emails, and a half hour meeting later, and I've just arrived here - give me 5 minutes JJ!!!! Posted by Sky_Mandy
Its all a big bag of dog-doo in my opinion, but this Andy Gray sexism row has managed to cause an argument in our house between me and the missus!
With all the floods, poverty, war, terrorism et cetera that go on in the world, I think it is sad that this is being blown out of all proportion.
I tried to explain that worse things are said publicly everyday, up and down the land in places of work, in pubs, at bus stops, in supermarkets, (not Aldi or Lidl) at home and almost EVERYWHERE.
She argued that I should try and see it from a woman's point of view, so I unplugged the TV, f****ed off to the kitchen with it and watched it in there.
Having read a few posts on this subject my take on the situation is this.
The game was ok as it was, unfairly perhaps but it did not need female lines...er....women or over exited female commentators whether they were qualified or not.
Andy Gray has been out of order with women over a few years and a few incidents, not just at work and deserved sacking.
I think that these women are going to experience very harsh and offensive chanting and comments from the crowds at every game and especially the woman involved in all this who did a fantastic and professional job in the match she was involved in. women have every right to officiate at any game of football but it won't work simply because you have to change the attitudes and nature of millions of men, not just one, and it will never happen.
The abuse that male officials have to take already is insulting, vile and personal. The scenario that a female official is attractive or not, or looks like a bloke or skinny or fat or pregnant or has a hairdo or is ginger etc etc etc the list is endless and the ammount of wicked stick they are going to get just for the sheer fun of it will be relentless and never ending and one has to ask is it worth it and will it be to the benefit of mens football ?
The solution?? There isn't one. Before you know it the prawn sandwich brigade will turn into the pc brigade and people will be chucked out all over the place and more and more women will be attending matches and there will be an insistance of fair quotas of women officials and the whole bloomin thing will turn into a joke and i don't want any of this happening to the game that i love.
I know i am going to probably get some stick but i want womens footy to be in one place and mens footy to stay as it was but it's just because i don't want it to change, indeed, it did not need to.
I am glad that womens football (which i have watched) is getting more and more popular but that is where females should officiate and stay for their sake and for mens footballs sake. I am sorry ladies but the majority of male football supporters are not going to change into non-chauvinistic perfect gentlemen with an understanding and sensitive nature ever....never mind in a million years.
I dread to think what these women are going to be called and don't want to worry about it. I just want to watch footy and talk about it with my mates after.
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By the way, dont worry, the people in charge are firmly on your side, When the next generation comes along they will all be brainwashed, they will be told what to think enfocable by law.
we will have to agree to dissagree on this point, But I would never dream of taking away your ability to earn a living to survive because you held a different opinion than me no matter what you believed , Even if you were racest.
Derogatory comments of this nature should not be permitted in the workplace and are not in the best interests of the company. This does not mean that we should'nt have an opinion, but we should be aware of the rules for harassment in our working environment and keep our personal opinions separate from the work place.
If for instance if we worked for a well known crisps company, it might be our personal opinion that the crisps which they manufactured were rubbish, however, if you were to express this opinion publicly, your remarks would most likely result in disciplinary action.
I still hear many people make racist remarks in the pub from time to time, that is their personal opinion and theres nothing I can do about it, however, if these same remarks were made in a working environment then they would be disciplined.
So do we have "a right to express our opinions"?
Answer: Not in the workplace if it can be deemed as offensive.
Changes to the equality Act 2010 (Businesses)
The definition of harassment now means an employee who simply overhears an offensive comment, even if it's not directed at them, can hold a company legally responsible for it.
Its seems strange to defend a mans job when his views are clearly the woman shouldnt of got her job because of her gender. So if he had his way she woundnt have her job but he would have his.
I think we all have a right to our own opinion but I also think people have the right to get on with their lives without others trying to hold them back because of gender, race, sexuality or class.
Hopefully thats me done on this subject.
An act is a rule enfored by law, there are lots of acts that infringe upon human rights and therefore cant be used as evidence to establish what is right and what is not, just because a company can hold someone legally responsable for someones comments does not refute my statements, I believe any company should be able to sack any employee for breaking thier rules, I am not saying they didnt have the right to sack him because clearly they do, I am saying that if he was sacked for his opinion on woman refs only then we all have something to think about regarding what is an acceptable opinion and what is not.
seems to me is that the majority of the population have bought into this idea and dont realy understand the implications of what can only be described as a monopoly media tell us all what opinions we should hold and sending the message that this is what happens to those who dont agree with us.
IF a person can be sacked for saying a woman ref is a stupid idea on national media then it is a big issue and imo should alert people to ask the question why is it soo bad?
My personal belief is that there is that this type of message will become more frequent and we all have ourselves to blame.
the law is only governed by the consent of the people, if we consent too much they will just keep making new rules/acts untill we can hardly say anything or turn a corner without breakking the law/rules.
he has to acount for his actions in that case.
the opinion on the woman ref is merely an opinion and an opinion that is held by more than him, imo should be debated not squashed.
we realy dont dissagree
KEEPING UP WITH THE PLAY IS A BIG PART OF REFS JOB.
MEN ARE FASTER THAN WOMAN
FAT SLOW MEN SHOULD ALSO BE EXCLUDED FROM REFS JOB
IF THEY BROUGHT IN USING TV REPLAYS FOR ALL SITUATIONS IN FOOTBALL REFING THEN WOMAN WOULD BE ACCEPTABLE
IF I WORKED AS A TV PUNDET SHOULD I BE SACKED FOR AIRING MY OPINION?
WOULD A PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATION AGREE WITH ME?
SHOULD THIER OPINION BE HEARD?
SHOULD A MAN BE PUNNISHED FOR SEXUAL HARRASSMENT? YES WE DONT DISSAGREE ON THAT POINT
just a lot of femanist men in touch with thier female side fairies
Sadly, he was a name and probably the women were not. It's not really about the ref anymore..I for one was very disappointed to find out she had been removed from the Crewe v Bradford game!
Do I think AG should have been investigated and disciplined for his conduct in the workplace? Yes, however, it's surprising how it then enables those without a 'voice' to come forward...which highlights - publicly - how long and to what extent this has been going on for.
Do I think AG should keep his job JUST because he's on the telebox? No..but as any employee he has the right to appeal and I understand he is currently examining his options...
Re the OP...to try to compare AG's comments (a regular pundit on family friendly football matches) to the banter around Sky Poker (an over 18's gambling site & program) is irrelevant, I can only presume this comparason was to generate a reaction from the forum.
I for one would be extremely disappointed to find the poo, wee, sick, train, movies stories and banter between the analyst's, gallery and us stripped away from the channel...It's supposed to be entertainment!!!
xx
I fear that when she makes a mistake which they all do people will be easly convinced by the doubters of female refs it was because she was a women and not because she is only human.
I fear all we have proved with this discussion is that we have both got far to much time on our hands!
PS get a new photo bud you look like the ghost of christmass past with the one you have now
Ps Why have you not got a photo? Is it because you look worse than me? :P
there is no battle m8 only opinions and counter opinions, but if some get thier way there will only be one opinion and thats the one that is spoon fed to us.
;-)
Should make plenty on here happy
All the best Richard
With all the floods, poverty, war, terrorism et cetera that go on in the world, I think it is sad that this is being blown out of all proportion.
I tried to explain that worse things are said publicly everyday, up and down the land in places of work, in pubs, at bus stops, in supermarkets, (not Aldi or Lidl) at home and almost EVERYWHERE.
She argued that I should try and see it from a woman's point of view, so I unplugged the TV, f****ed off to the kitchen with it and watched it in there.
pffffft.
The game was ok as it was, unfairly perhaps but it did not need female lines...er....women or over exited female commentators whether they were qualified or not.
Andy Gray has been out of order with women over a few years and a few incidents, not just at work and deserved sacking.
I think that these women are going to experience very harsh and offensive chanting and comments from the crowds at every game and especially the woman involved in all this who did a fantastic and professional job in the match she was involved in. women have every right to officiate at any game of football but it won't work simply because you have to change the attitudes and nature of millions of men, not just one, and it will never happen.
The abuse that male officials have to take already is insulting, vile and personal. The scenario that a female official is attractive or not, or looks like a bloke or skinny or fat or pregnant or has a hairdo or is ginger etc etc etc the list is endless and the ammount of wicked stick they are going to get just for the sheer fun of it will be relentless and never ending and one has to ask is it worth it and will it be to the benefit of mens football ?
The solution?? There isn't one. Before you know it the prawn sandwich brigade will turn into the pc brigade and people will be chucked out all over the place and more and more women will be attending matches and there will be an insistance of fair quotas of women officials and the whole bloomin thing will turn into a joke and i don't want any of this happening to the game that i love.
I know i am going to probably get some stick but i want womens footy to be in one place and mens footy to stay as it was but it's just because i don't want it to change, indeed, it did not need to.
I am glad that womens football (which i have watched) is getting more and more popular but that is where females should officiate and stay for their sake and for mens footballs sake. I am sorry ladies but the majority of male football supporters are not going to change into non-chauvinistic perfect gentlemen with an understanding and sensitive nature ever....never mind in a million years.
I dread to think what these women are going to be called and don't want to worry about it. I just want to watch footy and talk about it with my mates after.