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  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : Hi Mr Ghost. Ask any competent player, & they will give you the same answer, 100% of the time. It's THE dream spot for him, & it does not matter if he wins or loses - it's the best spot he'll ever ever find. Ever. ;) PS - Ever. I wager now - when Dohhhhhhh & Co come on, they'll say the same thing. Weird, but true. It's hard to grasp the concept that 7-8 is better than QQ & TT in that spot, but if you think it through, it becomes obvious.
    Posted by Tikay10
    What Mr Shortstack is looking for is a 3 or 4 way pot with any two live cards. That way IF he takes it down he becomes a contender. Waiting for a ''better'' opportunity is faulty logic. Waiting for the monster might double him up or get him the blinds but his predicament remains the same.........he's still short stacked. Playing this way he might go up a place in the prize-money if he is lucky but he'll never win it without a freaky run of monster cards.
  • edited December 2009
     In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : Hi Mr Ghost. Ask any competent player, & they will give you the same answer, 100% of the time. It's THE dream spot for him, & it does not matter if he wins or loses - it's the best spot he'll ever ever find. Ever. ;) PS - Ever. I wager now - when Dohhhhhhh & Co come on, they'll say the same thing. Weird, but true. It's hard to grasp the concept that 7-8 is better than QQ & TT in that spot, but if you think it through, it becomes obvious.
    Posted by Tikay10
    Yeh I agree its a call, how much was it, 6bbs behind? definately a call, after 3 all ins before me here Im glad to see hands like 23, 34, 45, 56, 67 etc etc rather than ace 7,8,9,10,J.....

    But the example given was so much of a no brainer, I dnt think it fully got the point across about how calling with any 2 can sometimes be either correct, or definately worth considering.

    Mid - late stage of a deepstack tourny with a large field,.....

    average stack = 100k.

    blinds 2k 4k.

    UTG raises to 12k, 5 callers round to the big blind, we are chip leader with 300k and look down at 67 off! - What ya gonna do?

    Ill tell ya now Im calling, the flop comes 3,4,5 rainbow, end up 3 players all in, bloke UTG had quite rightly raised with aces, horrorfied to see 5 callers behind, but cant get away. Player in late position has called pre to try and make a set with 33 44 or 55, getting the right price and implied odds, he isnt going away.

    I have the nuts, eliminate 2 players, and lenghten my chip lead - by speculatively calling pre flop with a weak hand, because it was the right play.


    Then the chatbox goes u f* **in donk, eediot, u will go broke, they weren't even suited!! etc etc etc.....

    The point is, going back to the origional headline of this thread, "Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!" --- Just because a bloke is holding a bad hand, or 2 poor cards....doesnt mean the standard of play is poor!


    DOHH
  • edited December 2009
    YOU HAVE STRAYED FROM THE THREAD AGAIN DOHX7.YOUR REPLY HERE IS ABOUT TIKAYS INSTANCE,THE MAIN THREAD WAS RELATED TO HANDS SUCH AS 9 4 OFF AS AN EXAMPLE ON LEVEL STACKS EARLY OR MID TOURNY CALLING ALL-INS.IF YOU WAS NOT AWARE OF THIS JUST ASK XFALLENX OR OTHERS WHO HAVE MADE SIMILAR POSTS.I DO THINK THOUGH THAT THIS HAS BEEN A COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME AS IT STILL DOESNT ALTER THE FACT SOME PLAYERS WILL DO WHAT I SAID HERE WITH JUNK.JUST A PITY I CANT SEEM TO FIND ALL OF THEM.LOL GL DOHX7 LUV DEBS XX
  • edited December 2009
    I agree with Tikay. It really is quite simple imo..
    Put it like this wat would u rather play against, 10 players who play the game how u do who are solid players as good & sum maybe better than u are? Ur odds of winning overall then are surely far less likely & less profitable than playing a table of fish/ chancers/ who overall the odds are against! I understand the frustration of losing hands to those types of players but u have to remember that these players are the bread & butter for most good players on any poker site & to suggest any kind of discrimination against these players would imo be absurd & very unsportsmanly. Unquestionably there is an element of luck in poker, & players can call with bad cards & get lucky but the majority of the time they call with bad cards they will be whittling their chips away.

    Example- I was playing 2p/4p the other day & there was a player going crazy in the chat window calling another player an idiot,fish etc etc coz he'd had afew bad beats. I thought this was largely unfair so pointed out that this table was a BEGINNERS table! This table SHOULD be where BEGINNERS get the chance to improve there game, learn from their mistakes & make bad calls & if any decent player is narrow minded enough to play these tables with that in mind then abuse novice players for bad beats then they only have there selves to blame.
    This is however just my thoughts & opinion & I feel being a good loser when it happens against wateva cards the opposition has is just as important as being a good winner!
  • edited December 2009

    Thanks Lord Earl, nice first Post, too.

    When we move in with J-J & get called by 8-2, the 8-2 wins sometimes. Not often, but now & then.

    We don't complain - in fact, we permit ourselves a little smug smile - when 8-2 numpty makes his ridiculous Call & loses.

    In fact, over time - & this is not disputable - 8-2 man loses this coup almost nine times in 10. And we smile smugly nine times in 10.

    So, all things consdidered, it behoves us to lose with dignity, & show a little mental fortitude, when, on the 10th occasion, our numpty friend gets his token win.

    And we NEED him to win now & then - he's our seedcorn. He's the soft touch at the Table who enables us average players to do OK.

    The thread began with the comment "I'm fed up with these bad players....I moved onto this Site to get away from them".

    Well you cannot get away from them - they are everywhere, Live & Online. Thank goodness.

    We can't have our cake & eat it. We're happy to take their money 9 times in 10. So we ought to be a little more gracious in defeat 1 time in 10.

    That's the thing with poker. It shows who can face up to the wind & rain in their face, when the going gets tough.
  • edited December 2009

    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:

    Thanks Lord Earl, nice first Post, too. When we move in with J-J & get called by 8-2, the 8-2 wins sometimes. Not often, but now & then. We don't complain - in fact, we permit ourselves a little smug smile - when 8-2 numpty makes his ridiculous Call & loses. In fact, over time - & this is not disputable - 8-2 man loses this coup almost nine times in 10. And we smile smugly nine times in 10. So, all things consdidered, it behoves us to lose with dignity, & show a little mental fortitude, when, on the 10th occasion, our numpty friend gets his token win. And we NEED him to win now & then - he's our seedcorn. He's the soft touch at the Table who enables us average players to do OK. The thread began with the comment "I'm fed up with these bad players....I moved onto this Site to get away from them". Well you cannot get away from them - they are everywhere, Live & Online. Thank goodness. We can't have our cake & eat it. We're happy to take their money 9 times in 10. So we ought to be a little more gracious in defeat 1 time in 10. That's the thing with poker. It shows who can face up to the wind & rain in their face, when the going gets tough.
    Posted by Tikay10
    NICE PERSONAL ATTACK

    CHEERS


  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : NICE PERSONAL ATTACK CHEERS
    Posted by xFALLENx
    Hi xfallenx.I dont think some of them realise just how often you and some others are suffering these strange bad beats.If it was just 1 in 10 im sure you wouldnt even notice it yourself.GL ure mate debs xx
  • edited December 2009

    Thankyou Tikay, & perfectly put & more articulate than myself ;)

    Heres another thought...
    What about the guy who is a solid player 99% of the time with a good track record & a consistently accumilating bankroll. BUT occasionally on a fri night after afew shandys enjoys to purely gamble a minute undetremental percentage of his bankroll to play the role of the 'underdog' for the sheer smugness of hitting with a badbeat! At that point this player would be thought of as a fish or suchlike by everyone at that table correct? Its reasonable to assume that odds are overall his fri night play will see him at a loss.
    HOWEVER if the other players at that table remember him as a fish, then when they come across him the other 99% of the time when he's playing his game solid it is more likely he will be underestimated. Just an interesting viewpoint I think?

  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : NICE PERSONAL ATTACK CHEERS
    Posted by xFALLENx
    I think you are missing the point. Tikay has not made a personal attack he merely replied to my viewpoint & made a generalisation that in poker there is an element of luck which has to be understood & respected, & made a generalisation that in this game it pays to take the rough with the smooth!
    Im not quite sure wat ur argument is? U seem to hav suffered some unfortunate bad 'luck' against some players calling with bad cards & getting lucky! Just bcoz the odds are 'generally' 1 in 10 in ur favour with good cards doesnt mean u cant lose to badbeats in succession & have a bad run it just means uv been terribly unlucky! Stick with it & I have no doubt u will see ur luck pick up & good play pay off! ;)
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : Hi xfallenx.I dont think some of them realise just how often you and some others are suffering these strange bad beats.If it was just 1 in 10 im sure you wouldnt even notice it yourself.GL ure mate debs xx
    Posted by debdobs_67
    1 in 10 was just for the example Tikay used (jj v 82), everything he said is essentially true.

    If you go all-in with a-k and get called by 8-2 and then get beat with a 2 on the river, it looks horrendous so you will remember it as a "strange" bad beat. However, 8-2 will win 32% of the time! But because it looks like such a terrible call, many people will cry that they got sucked out by a 7% chance on the river, conveniently forgetting that they were likely to lose 1 in 3 times pre-flop.

    This is why mentally accepting (and appreciating) bad beats, bad luck and bad players is crucial to progressing in poker. Tikay was not attacking Fallen, only trying to help her, I hope she can look at his post again in a different light and learn the essential truths within it.
  • edited December 2009

    Debdobs is right. I dont know how often these beats happen - though I would not call them "strange". They are not strange at all, that's the point everyone needs to take on board. They are a cocktail of maths & variance, doing their thing.

    The 8-2 man might, in fact, win v J-J 3 times running. That's called variance. For J-J man, that is "-Ve". (-Ve = Negative Variance).

    And then, lose with 8-2 v J-J 30 times on the bounce. For J-J man, that's called +Ve. (Positive Variance).

    However, variance is impotent, because it's owned by Maths. And over time, Maths always rules. Over time, there are NO exceptions.

    I'm sorry xFALLENx thinks it was a personal attack. It was not - I don't do personal attacks, as anyone & everyone knows. But I do spend a lot of my own time - as here - to try to explain to poker players how the game works.

    But if anyone cannot grasp how maths & variance collude to make poker such a wonderful game, they are in denial of the facts. And it's my job to try to explain these things.

    And if poker becomes something that hurts, that is painful, where a defeat or a run of losses causes anyone to become really upset or hurt, my advice is always the same. They either need to understand how poker works, or play something different.

    Poker is a game at our level. And why play games we don't enjoy? 
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : 1 in 10 was just for the example Tikay used (jj v 82), everything he said is essentially true. If you go all-in with a-k and get called by 8-2 and then get beat with a 3 on the river, it looks horrendous so you will remeber it as a "strange" bad beat. However, 8-2 will win 32% of the time! But because it looks like such a terrible call, many people will cry that they got sucked out by a 7% chance on the river, conveniently forgetting that they were likely to lose 1 in 3 times pre-flop. This is why mentally accepting (and appreciating) bad beats, bad luck and bad players is crucial to progressing in poker. Tikay was not attacking Fallen, only trying to help her, I hope she can look at his post again in a different light and learn the essential truths within it.
    Posted by JingleMa
    +1
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : I think you are missing the point. Tikay has not made a personal attack he merely replied to my viewpoint & made a generalisation that in poker there is an element of luck which has to be understood & respected, & made a generalisation that in this game it pays to take the rough with the smooth! Im not quite sure wat ur argument is? U seem to hav suffered some unfortunate bad 'luck' against some players calling with bad cards & getting lucky! Just bcoz the odds are 'generally' 1 in 10 in ur favour with good cards doesnt mean u cant lose to badbeats in succession & have a bad run it just means uv been terribly unlucky! Stick with it & I have no doubt u will see ur luck pick up & good play pay off! ;)
    Posted by Risky-Earl
     
    OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG WHAT IVE BEEN TRYING 2 SAY ITS ALL BEEN ROUGH......SMOOTH DOESNT EVEN COME IN2 IT.....BUT IVE CHANGED GAMES (TY DEBDOBS 4 UR SUGGESTION) AND MOVED 2 HIGHER PRICED TABLES....U STILL GET THE ODD CHANCER (READS PODS POST) BUT IT NOWHERE AS BAD...

  • edited December 2009
    Terrific posts by Risky-Earl, Tikay and (particularly) JingleMa.
  • edited December 2009

    Heres an example of luck for u all- I entered a sitngo double your money the other day & to my shock I had 4 hole cards & realised I'd entered an Omaha which I had never played before in my life or even knew the rules! I googled the rules & proceeded to double my money & take 1st place to win. Later that day I entered £200 guaranteed Omaha tourney with 30 entrants as Id enjoyed variance of the earlier sitngo, I took 1st place & £80. Now having never played it before against people who had ud think there would have to be a fair element of luck on my side wouldnt u say?! Sorry if iv slightly gone off track from the original thread.

  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Thanks Lord Earl, nice first Post, too. When we move in with J-J & get called by 8-2, the 8-2 wins sometimes. Not often, but now & then. We don't complain - in fact, we permit ourselves a little smug smile - when 8-2 numpty makes his ridiculous Call & loses. In fact, over time - & this is not disputable - 8-2 man loses this coup almost nine times in 10. And we smile smugly nine times in 10. So, all things consdidered, it behoves us to lose with dignity, & show a little mental fortitude, when, on the 10th occasion, our numpty friend gets his token win. And we NEED him to win now & then - he's our seedcorn. He's the soft touch at the Table who enables us average players to do OK. The thread began with the comment "I'm fed up with these bad players....I moved onto this Site to get away from them". Well you cannot get away from them - they are everywhere, Live & Online. Thank goodness. We can't have our cake & eat it. We're happy to take their money 9 times in 10. So we ought to be a little more gracious in defeat 1 time in 10. That's the thing with poker. It shows who can face up to the wind & rain in their face, when the going gets tough.
    Posted by Tikay10
    TRY THEY TAKE MY MONEY 9 TIMES IN 10 INSTEAD
     
    and no its not a personnal attack on me....sure
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Terrific posts by Risky-Earl, Tikay and (particularly) JingleMa.
    Posted by MereNovice
    Thanks MERENOVICE I'm new to the forums & community & have been pleasantly suprised to speak to decent likeminded people. I shall definately be a regualr ;)
  • edited December 2009
    Yes there are players who play badly/strangely but so what ? Its their choice and it adds to the challenge. If everyone played the same way, if nobody gambled the game would be predictable and boring. Its supposed to be exciting and fun !!
    I play against these players ( in MTT's ) regularly - sometimes I play like them. The last thing I want is to be predictable. It can be frustrating. Often as not I find myself in stitches laughing. But then I don't play, or expect, to make a profit. Lighten up is my response to you. There is no right way to play and even the experts get it wrong. 
    As it happens, my account has doubled since  the start of the year so you can beat them if you think it out.

     STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    AM TOTALLY FED UP. FOR THE LAST FEW WEEKS ALL I HAVE BEEN DOING IN DEFENDING SKY AND IDIOT PLAYERS. BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH FOR WEEKS NOW ALL IVE COME ACROSS IS TOTAL CHANCERS/MUPPETS/IDIOTS AND WHAT MAKES IT WORSE THEY SEEM 2 WIN 9/10. I MOVED ON2 THIS SITE TO GET AWAY FROM THEM BUT THEY SEEM 2 B COMING OUT OF THE WOODWORK.EVERY SINGLE TABLE IVE BEEN ON THEY R THERE HAVE LOST LOADS OF FRIENDS ON HERE 4 THIS VERY REASON. THERES NO LONGER SKILL NEEDED 2 WIN, JUST CHANCE! 4GET BEING A GOOD SOLID PLAYER, JUST CHANCE IT UR MORE LIKELY 2 WIN!!
    Posted by xFALLENx
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! : TRY THEY TAKE MY MONEY 9 TIMES IN 10 INSTEAD   and no its not a personnal attack on me....sure
    Posted by xFALLENx
    Can we all Pleeeeease have a group hug for xfallenx (Lisa) we have all been down this road, bad beats and thinking things will never get better but a little possitive support goes a long way.


    + 1 Hugs
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Yes there are players who play badly/strangely but so what ? Its their choice and it adds to the challenge. If everyone played the same way, if nobody gambled the game would be predictable and boring. Its supposed to be exciting and fun !! I play against these players ( in MTT's ) regularly - sometimes I play like them. The last thing I want is to be predictable. It can be frustrating. Often as not I find myself in stitches laughing. But then I don't play, or expect, to make a profit. Lighten up is my response to you. There is no right way to play and even the experts get it wrong.  As it happens, my account has doubled since  the start of the year so you can beat them if you think it out.   STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! :
    Posted by tiercel
    Agreed. You have to appreciate that there are a huge variety of players with varying degrees of abilty, styles of play, experience & personal goals & motives for playing. This is what makes it the game it is & I personally enjoy it the way it is. A poker world where everyone plays premium cards/hands with the same strategy & style of play is imo a boring less challenging game & I imagine ud hardly ever even get to the point of seeing the river card.
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Terrific posts by Risky-Earl, Tikay and (particularly) JingleMa.
    Posted by MereNovice
    Thanks Mere, cheque is in the post. 8- />

    And welcome aboard Risky, very good point about the solid player who might play loose on friday nights after a couple of beers for a change. Look forward to more of your posts.
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Heres an example of luck for u all- I entered a sitngo double your money the other day & to my shock I had 4 hole cards & realised I'd entered an Omaha which I had never played before in my life or even knew the rules! I googled the rules & proceeded to double my money & take 1st place to win. Later that day I entered £200 guaranteed Omaha tourney with 30 entrants as Id enjoyed variance of the earlier sitngo, I took 1st place & £80. Now having never played it before against people who had ud think there would have to be a fair element of luck on my side wouldnt u say?! Sorry if iv slightly gone off track from the original thread.
    Posted by Risky-Earl

    Wow Mr Earl VWD!! That's great news and a great induction into OMaha!

    Glad you're enjoying our little community here. It's a very great pleasure to welcome you into it.

    xLM
  • edited December 2009
    Hi xfallenx
    Can I suggest that you get a nice warm blanket, a large amount of your favourite tipple, those chocolates that you swore you'd never eat again but you still got as a xmas present, find something good to watch on TV (hard, I know, but there must be something on) and just get away from this thread for a bit! What they don't seem to be able to get their heads around is that you don't care about the odds, the variance, all the various statistics and whether it'll be alright and "you'll come good in the end"! What you care about is that its been going on for weeks and you're fed up with it! I'm with pokertrev, Lisa-Marie and Debs, HUGS HUGS and MORE HUGS!!! ;)
  • edited December 2009
    I understand how Fallen is feeling, but I (think) I also understand the arguments of all those who are trying to help her to understand how these things work against us sometimes. There are logical arguments to be made for any occurrence in a given poker hand. Fallen's problem is not that it can and does happen, but that it appears to be happening all the time. Getting rivered and losing out to a lesser hand is to be expected and it has been pointed out most eloquently by more than one answer to her thread. I have had a shocking run lately (two months actually) on Sky and it does get to you eventually, and it has obviously ''got'' to Fallen.

    Let's take my case in point. I have recently been playing some Omaha tournaments on another site and have had top twenty finishes on 3 occasions in 400+ fields. Meanwhile I have played a number of minor Omaha tournaments (DYM's) on Sky and won exactly nothing. How can this be? Well it's not because the players on Sky are better. I don't think I play differently on Sky (maybe I should), and I haven't had the mythical doom button pressed by Sky. What's the answer? The answer is I don't know, and what would be easy is to start to anylise it too deeply and come up with all sorts of reasons.

    The problem when this sort of thing happens is a tendency to be on the look-out for reasons and that is where I think Fallen is now. Selective memory comes into play and we are waiting in anticipation of the next ''occurrence.'' These anticipated outcomes are then stored in our memory to the exception of all other outcomes and we build a catalogue of times when we were beaten. After a while we start to believe that we are losing out every time because that's what our (selective) memory is telling us. No amount of reasoning by others can shake our belief that this is happening to us because we have a stored history to remind us. We then alter how we play based on our expected outcome and our game deteriorates to cause even more problems. After a while it seems that everything is conspiring against us and area51 beckons. Don't be hard on someone going through this as you could be next.

    I know of lots of very good players who have ended up in this vicious circle and it's hard to escape it. Understanding what is happening is a first step to beating it. Stopping playing for a period is good as you can often come back with a fresh outlook and a positive approach. My way is to play somewhere else and see if it is an improvement and come back when the ''gods'' are with you, if not I stop for a while. Never burn your bridges by saying you will leave permanently or that the site has it in for you. This will only alienate you from the other players sympathy. Take a break.

    Those who think it will never happen to them are brave souls. I hope it never does, but....... it might.
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    I understand how Fallen is feeling, but I (think) I also understand the arguments of all those who are trying to help her to understand how these things work against us sometimes. There are logical arguments to be made for any occurrence in a given poker hand. Fallen's problem is not that it can and does happen, but that it appears to be happening all the time. Getting rivered and losing out to a lesser hand is to be expected and it has been pointed out most eloquently by more than one answer to her thread. I have had a shocking run lately (two months actually) on Sky and it does get to you eventually, and it has obviously ''got'' to Fallen. Let's take my case in point. I have recently been playing some Omaha tournaments on another site and have had top twenty finishes on 3 occasions in 400+ fields. Meanwhile I have played a number of minor Omaha tournaments (DYM's) on Sky and won exactly nothing. How can this be? Well it's not because the players on Sky are better. I don't think I play differently on Sky (maybe I should), and I haven't had the mythical doom button pressed by Sky. What's the answer? The answer is I don't know, and what would be easy is to start to anylise it too deeply and come up with all sorts of reasons. The problem when this sort of thing happens is a tendency to be on the look-out for reasons and that is where I think Fallen is now. Selective memory comes into play and we are waiting in anticipation of the next ''occurrence.'' These anticipated outcomes are then stored in our memory to the exception of all other outcomes and we build a catalogue of times when we were beaten. After a while we start to believe that we are losing out every time because that's what our (selective) memory is telling us. No amount of reasoning by others can shake our belief that this is happening to us because we have a stored history to remind us. We then alter how we play based on our expected outcome and our game deteriorates to cause even more problems. After a while it seems that everything is conspiring against us and area51 beckons. Don't be hard on someone going through this as you could be next. I know of lots of very good players who have ended up in this vicious circle and it's hard to escape it. Understanding what is happening is a first step to beating it. Stopping playing for a period is good as you can often come back with a fresh outlook and a positive approach. My way is to play somewhere else and see if it is an improvement and come back when the ''gods'' are with you, if not I stop for a while. Never burn your bridges by saying you will leave permanently or that the site has it in for you. This will only alienate you from the other players sympathy. Take a break. Those who think it will never happen to them are brave souls. I hope it never does, but....... it might.
    Posted by elsadog
     GOOD POST ELSA, VERY ACCURATE AND VERY WELL WRITTEN.

    I HAVENT SAID IM LEAVING AND I HAVENT BLAMED SKY 4 MY MISFORTUNE,

    JUST DOWN BUT NOT OUT.
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    Hi xfallenx Can I suggest that you get a nice warm blanket, a large amount of your favourite tipple, those chocolates that you swore you'd never eat again but you still got as a xmas present, find something good to watch on TV (hard, I know, but there must be something on) and just get away from this thread for a bit! What they don't seem to be able to get their heads around is that you don't care about the odds, the variance, all the various statistics and whether it'll be alright and "you'll come good in the end"! What you care about is that its been going on for weeks and you're fed up with it! I'm with pokertrev, Lisa-Marie and Debs, HUGS HUGS and MORE HUGS!!! ;)
    Posted by DiggerMan


    AND OF COURSE EVERYBODY ELSE WHO HAS HELPED AND UNDERSTOOD WHERE IM COMING FROM.
  • edited December 2009
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!!:
    In Response to Re: STANDARD OF PLAY GONE UP....YEAH RIGHT!!!! :  GOOD POST ELSA, VERY ACCURATE AND VERY WELL WRITTEN. I HAVENT SAID IM LEAVING AND I HAVENT BLAMED SKY 4 MY MISFORTUNE, JUST DOWN BUT NOT OUT.
    Posted by xFALLENx

    I realise that Fallen....it was a general comment regarding this problem and for anyone who got to the end of my post without falling asleep. Not aimed at you at all.

    Take a break, it WILL change but you need to break the cycle.
  • edited December 2009

    If xFALLENX wants "hugs", fine, I'll offer hugs, though I fancy I might get a slap round the chops in return.

    Hugs won't help though. Hugs would be as useful as a handkerchief when someone has a cold. Hankies don't cure colds. Being all cooey-wooey won't stop another run of -ve variance hitting xFALLENx or any other impartial reader of this Thread. Because, as sure as God made little apples, everyone gets hit by negative variance.

    Many years ago, it used to trouble me, too, but I learned what caused it, & why, & how to deal with it mentally, & at the Table.

    Understanding it is the ONLY way to be able to handle it.

    So I spent a lot of my time explaining what variance is. They were not my opinion, they were hard, cold, facts. Variance is there, & it's brutal. Our enjoyment of the game hinges entirely on understanding variance.

    Enjoying the good when we get it, storing it up in our little reservoir of satisfaction, & using it to see us through the bad spells, works for most of us. Getting upset & frustrated will not help. Ever. Understanding it will.

    If I were given the choice of a hug or an explanation which enabled me to handle it, I know what I'd want.

    In fact, both are fine, but the explanation is the one that matters. The hug is the hanky, the explanation is the medicine.
  • edited December 2009
    I think xFALLENX you should have a break and stay off this site for a cupple of days. Me aswell had the same thought about the standard of play on this site BBBBUUUUTTTTTT its not the site, you controll what you do. when you sort that out you will be alright
  • edited December 2009
    OF COURSE TIKAY YOU ARE NOT WRONG AT ALL,IN FACT THAT PERFECTLY SUMMED IT ALL UP.WHAT BUGS ME THOUGH IS THAT A PLAYER LIKE XFALLENX HAS A BIT OF A MOAN ABOUT BAD LUCK OR BAD CALLS AND SOME OF THE RIOT BRIGADE COME OUT OF THE WOODWORK.I HAVE SEEN OTHER THREADS RELATED TO THESE SUBJECTS AND THEY ARE STILL ON HERE AND NOT ONE SINGLE PERSON HERE HAS HAD ANY KIND OF DIG AT THEM AT ALL.THAT IS AN OBSERVATION AND NOWT AT ALL TO DO WITH YOUR POSTS TIKAY.BUT AS FOR A FEW OF THE OTHERS?WELL THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE.ALL THE BEST DEBS XX
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